making out with another woman, am i bi?

[Aphrodite_66]

Well I finally made out with another woman after many fantasies,phone and cyber sex and dreams and thoughts of women while masturbating.

The verdict "I liked it very much".We were both very nervous and uncertain of what to do at first.

What happened was that she had told me that she was bi curious and wanted to be with another woman.I told her that I felt the same and she asked me over for coffee(we live in the same suburb).Afterwards she asked if I wanted to fool around.I was very nervous and uncertain but said yes.We kissed and caressed and it was wonderful.I have a fantastic and understanding male partner who doesn't mind me experiencing this side of me.

One thing I know is that I definitely want to do it again ,but whether it is with the same woman I'm not sure as she is still thinking if it is what she wants,although she did say that she enjoyed it.Am pretty certain now that I am definitely bisexual and it is a big load off my mind knowing that I have been there done that and don't have to wonder any more whether i'm bisexual or just curious.

[RedRoses]

Congrats with your wonderful experience, Aphrodite!

[molly_bikinier]

I am bi, my question is do most bis have physical relationships with guys and girls at the same time or do they take in turns? I had a boyfriend and we just broke up. Now i'm going on a date with my exdrama teacher but on friday my (girl)friend and me really liked being undressed in a cuddle. I think we will keep having fun nude but my first date with my exdrama teacher is tuesday. Should I tell him?

[Brandye]

We bi's differ. Some of us compartmentalize periods of our lives and some of us mix it up. Why should you tell anyone? I do not tell a man about my relationships with other men nor women about relationships with other women. At my age, you can assume I have a sexual history and beyond that no one has a need to know.

[molly_bikinier]

Originally Posted by Brandye

We bi's differ. Some of us compartmentalize periods of our lives and some of us mix it up. Why should you tell anyone? I do not tell a man about my relationships with other men nor women about relationships with other women. At my age, you can assume I have a sexual history and beyond that no one has a need to know.

Good, i like the simpleness of that drama-free

[Aphrodite_66]

I have a boyfriend who doesn't mind me seeing other women.I would like a girlfriend too,someone I can share things with that I can't with my man.I think that you can have feelings for two people at the same time,even fall in love with more than one person at once.The way I feel for my boyfriend is different to how I feel for women though.I love him very much and want to spend the rest of my life with him.If I had to choose between him and a woman I think it would be very hard but I would probably pick him.I am bi but so far I have had only sexual feelings for women.I have never met anyone yet that I feel I could have a romantic relationship with.It would have to be a very special lady for me to fall in love with her.If that happened I hope that I could still continue my relationship with my bf and be with my girlfriend too.

[molly_bikinier]

Originally Posted by Aphrodite_66

I have a boyfriend who doesn't mind me seeing other women.I would like a girlfriend too,someone I can share things with that I can't with my man.I think that you can have feelings for two people at the same time,even fall in love with more than one person at once.The way I feel for my boyfriend is different to how I feel for women though.I love him very much and want to spend the rest of my life with him.If I had to choose between him and a woman I think it would be very hard but I would probably pick him.I am bi but so far I have had only sexual feelings for women.I have never met anyone yet that I feel I could have a romantic relationship with.It would have to be a very special lady for me to fall in love with her.If that happened I hope that I could still continue my relationship with my bf and be with my girlfriend too.

That would be fun to enjoy a girl and a guy too. They are so different to each other when cuddling me. I don't have much experience with girls but my massage therapist is female and she is really good at rubbing legs lol. And now my besst friend and me cuddle next to the pool a lot for fun too.

[ambershere]

no just a very sexual gal..