first time wow

[ajfinsc]

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[dancingdoc2]

Interesting.... You started off slowly, but then went straight to the finish line, what happened to all the necking and petting that could have gone on in between in order to really turn the two of you on even more?

As for telling your girlfriend, I have the following responses:

1. If you have an open and non-exclusive relationship in which the two of you can date other people in addition to each other, then you do not necessarily have to tell her. The caveat would be that she should know because you might have caught a social disease and not know it, thus transferring it on to her.

2. There is a rule that you can ask yourself about: "of what benefit is it for him/her to know?" If there is no benefit, then no need to tell.

As for even considering having the need to tell her, why didn't you consider the consequences and have a plan in place before you had sex with this person?

As for the discomfort of being penetrated, there is an article listed in the Index that outlines the how-to of all this. I recommend reading it in case there is a next time, be it a penis, finger, or dildo, being inserted.


"Playing Ball" and How To Tips for Prostate Massage
This is also an excellent tutorial for people interested in and concerned about the how-to of Anal stimulation as well as play.

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[RedRoses]

Let me add to 2)
it is also her "benefit" to know when there are possible consequences to her. In fact; this may be very crucial information to her health!

So; how do you view your relationship with her;
Are you going to continue having sex with her? Or are you going to break up?
If the first, you should definitely play all your cards openly to her. Especially when sex with the guy was without a condom and/or sex with her is. If the latter; you may consider whether you hurt her more by telling about this experience.

[nuttychick]

ajfinsc by deleting what you posted is really tragic Doc an RR went to the trouble to respond and you just edit ...
Stop wasting these fine peoples time

[Ducy]

To all the posters


OP stated he hooked up with another man and had his first encounter with anal sex. It hurt but he felt it was totally worth it, and now he is trying to figure out a way to tell his gf.

To me it sounds like he was bragging/trolling, since there was no questions asked