Woman to Woman

[MzBhvn]

i guess I'm going to rephrase my question... What do you get out of establishing a connection with the same sex? what if you are not serious about the relationship? Is it worth the try?

[nuttychick]

This is not some sleazy hook up joint .. Please go elsewhere to advertise...

[Ducy]

Its amazing how many people think that this is a hookup sight. Are they really that ignorant? Look around and you will quickly notice there aren't subforums for this...

[MzBhvn]

Who's stupid now? If this is a hook up for you, why are you guys replying to the post? If you think this post is ignorant, why did you stoop to its level. You could have help educate instead of condemn. What does that make you?

[Ducy]

Ok your posting a topic saying that your looking for a woman to experiment with. Obviously your looking for a hookup but since you got "busted" your trying to cover it up by claiming its not.

I post in this topic to tell you that this isn't a hook up site only to find that nutty has beaten me to it. We condemn it because if you cared to look at the forum rules before you posted anything you would have noticed that this is a sexual education site not a hookup site.

Nutty took the time to further educate you by saying this isn't a hook up site.

And we deal with posts like these everyday. From an underaged kid looking for "woman to be having sex with!" To fully grown adults looking to sleep with someone because their wife doesn't put out or their husband has ed.

I fail to see the point of "who is stupid now" and "what does that make you" look around me and nutty have both done quite a bit of "education and help" along with several other wonderful members. And it truly goes to show your "ignorance" with your reply of who is stupid now. There is a difference between ignorance and stupidity. By posting such a reply you really showed your ignorance.

[MzBhvn]

ha! ha! ha! ha! Such parents!

[Ducy]

Somebody has to be or else this site would become another "hook up" site. And once it turns to that it becomes worthless for education. And with societies "views" on sex let's face it. Without sites like these 99% of the questions asked about sex would be answered with

"Premarital sex is wrong. Masturbation is a crime against humanity and who needs condoms when you have abstinence"

[MzBhvn]

Wow! I'm actually speechless on your last blow... 1 point for you there. =)

[Ducy]

Please do not mistake my posts as "blows". I do not sugar coat things. I myself prefer the cold hard replies as opposed to the little "tap on the bottom" and a bowl of sugar as punishment type!

Now to answer your updated post. Many people choose same sex relationships because they feel they can better connect (at least a lot of my bisexual friends agree)

There is nothing wrong with a relationship in which there is no real "seriousness". These are usually NSA type friends with benefits situations. As long as bother parties are aware that the other isn't interestted in investing feelings then it is all good. Just make sure you are capable of seperating sex and love since those who can't tend to have the "heart break" NSA relationships.

[MzBhvn]

But do you think fulfilling this urge would help me define who I am? Or do you even categories this as urge? What if it's just a mere fantasy, would there be any reality to it? If you think about it day and night? The What Ifs? But when it's in front of you, you froze in the moment and not know what to do. Then you become to question if this is really what you want.