Woman to Woman

[CollierAlda1]

It is helpful, though not necessary, if you have a male and female coordinator. This helps as a backup and some people are more comfortable initially contacting someone of the same sex.

[Ducy]

A virgin male wants the hottest girl in school. Yet 99% of the time the male would freeze if the girl was naked in front of him. Its called nerves.

I have incredible confidence in bed. I have engaged in exhibitonism, performed a lot of fantasies (role playing, domination, bondage) but there was a time when I was presented with a major fantasy (my best friend offered herself to me) and I froze. It was stupid. Any other girl I would have "attacked" on the spot. But I was so aroused and in awe by her that it left me stunned...and sadly I missed my chance and never got another.

Even if it is a fantasy is it really that bad to act it out? Sure some fantasies should stay fantasies (I.e. highly illegal actions) but hooking up with a girl is perfectly fine (as long as they are both 18 and consenting). If you do it and realize you don't like it then what have you lost? Nothing. As long as your safe the odds of std's are low (both parties tested and such). There's 0 chance of pregnancy (except in a very odd case I heard of). And if you do wind up enjoying it then guess what? You just got what you wanted!

As far as defining yourself it is something that takes a lifetime to do. I am 21 and have done everything a teen does. I have had long hair, nipple and tongue rings. Plugs (at one time) I have a tattoo. Have had one night stands. Underage drinking. Sold drugs. Campaigned against them. I have spent countless hours teaching myself things (massage techniques, cars, athletics, etc). I moved to Hollywood for a year. I did everything I could in a search to define who I was. And do you know what I learned? I have my views, I have my opinions, I have my experiences, but ultimately I am ever changing. What I liked at 16 isn't what I like now. And in 10 years I may go back to being a nerdy hermit instead of a gym rat.

As you age you will become more "aware" of this fact.

[Ducy]

Originally Posted by CollierAlda1

It is helpful, though not necessary, if you have a male and female coordinator. This helps as a backup and some people are more comfortable initially contacting someone of the same sex.

I'm sorry but....what?!?

[nuttychick]

Originally Posted by MzBhvn

Who's stupid now? ?

The OP of this thread for Editing the whole post to something other
then their first post intention ... on yah OP

[CathyLoves2LICK]

Watch Bellezza or Viv Thomas adult dvds and you will "SEE" the benefit of establishing a connection with another woman/girl. It's mind-blowing what you two can experience. You don't need to "commit" to enjoy each other completely. Trust me on this one. I have several female lovers and none of us are interested in commitment. You can have so much affection and orgasms....all of the soft touches and warm kisses.

[CathyLoves2LICK]

Originally Posted by MzBhvn

i guess I'm going to rephrase my question... What do you get out of establishing a connection with the same sex? what if you are not serious about the relationship? Is it worth the try?

You don't need commitment and seriousness to enjoy sexual intimacy with another woman/girl. I have several lovers and we are not interested in commitment. Just eating each other's pussies and kissing, loving, affection with each other.

[PriscillaSabina]

First you should detect that he/she interested or not in homosexual activity. if interested thank you should try in that direction.