What the hell am I???

[Giana]

I process a love for both males and females.. I have no clue where this came from... I had a crush on a few girls, and they did on me too.. I feel something is wrong with me. I mean, I believe I'm like this because most men reject me. Women don't.. I like men more.. But they don't like me.. I don't know what to do! My parents are the most racist and stereotype people I have ever know. I would be known as a gay fagget for my whole life.. I just can't.. I don't know what to do. Others would reject me too.. I'd be like an outsider.. What do u guys think?

[Cumloads]

WOW well what is it that you feel in your heart! and if you want too I.M. I can

[brianmyers]

liking guys and girls is not a bad thing. it means you get the best of both worlds. now why guys reject you i can not begin to explain. i am a guy and girls reject me al lthe time yet they tell me i am the sweetest guy in the world and to never change a thing about myself.liking guys and girls just makes you bi. but heres the thing. no one has to know u like girls too. that can be your little secret. if you dont want to be know as a fag or gay or anything like that. but people call people those names bec they are not mature. you will be the better person if you dont let those things bother you. just know that you are better than them and let it just roll off your shoulder. bec your true friends will like you no matter what you decide to do. I hope this helped you. if you have any questions or want to talk feel free to email me.

[jessica roy]

when I came out and told people I like girls I lost alot of friends. People that could not handle it or were just to imature. It was sad to lose such friends to have people reject me. But on the other hand I learned who my true friends were. That was a valuable lesson.

[sania]

Originally Posted by jessica roy

when I came out and told people I like girls I lost alot of friends. People that could not handle it or were just to imature. It was sad to lose such friends to have people reject me. But on the other hand I learned who my true friends were. That was a valuable lesson.

you are right. Always be what you are. Say what you want. Dont think of others and change your choice. If you change as per others requirement, you would never be satisfied in life. So speak what you want.

People who are true to you will be with you.

[Brandye]

Perhaps not relevant but "faggot" refers to gay males not lesbians.

As for the rest, "outsider" to whom? Those of us who are bi- tend have very broad friendships and move comfortably in both worlds. Do some people object? Perhaps, but it is none of their business. Live your life. Being outside of one group can very well mean you are inside another group. Which would you rather be with?

[jessica roy]

But loosing your famillies love can be a problem. I have a question how old are you? Do you still depend on parents for support? Do you think your ready to date yet?

[Barely18Guy]

I have bi tendencies, my friends think I'm the most virile (I know you can be gay and viril, but the main populatino doesn't) and women-attracted guy they know, I really am, but I am also like that, and I wouldn't tell anyone. That's me, and I live with it, and since I'm not really aroused by the male's body, it doesn,t bother me at all.

If you want to date girls, it's different because it's a deep relationship with everything that is attached to it. If you really want to hide it from everyone, suit yourself, and it may be the right choice, but it may be better in the long run if you told those you love.

The bottom line, do what you feel, both decisions have their pros and cons, but don't restrain yourself, if you love women, just date them.