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[Just4fun96]

Hello, I am a 14 year old boy. I jack off a lot, an usually in my head it's just me and a woman, unless I'm watching porn. I have watched gay porn before, and it didn't turn me off at all, even though I found it kinda wierd.but I still jacked off to it. Also, I rilly like anally masturbating and other anal stuff. Am I bi?

[dancingdoc2]

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> I am a 14 year old boy. I jack off a lot

You are like every other teenage boy who ever was, is, and will be. For the next several years there will be more testosterone in your veins than blood, figuratively speaking. Expect that your raging hormones will be trying to rule your life. One of the tasks being a teenager and learning to become an adult is to manage your urges with that of common sense.

Transitioning from childhood into adulthood is a decade long process. Just because you have passed thru puberty and can father a child, you still have many years of development and maturity ahead in order to become a grown up.

> I have watched gay porn before, and it didn't turn me off at all, even though I found it kinda wierd.

X-rated videos tend to be weird, yet they do titillate us. The human male becomes aroused when any of our five senses are stimulated, be it porn, a great looking girl, mannequin, clothing, smells, voices, taste, etc. This is part of being human and becoming sexually aroused.

I recommend that you read every article listed in the Index, there is much for you to learn and later to practice. Right now and for the next few years, be a kid, learn and grow physically, emotionally, and intellectually. You are nowhere near ready for sex regardless of what your hormones are urging.

Should you ignore this advice and decide otherwise, then man up because when you engage in adult activities, you have to be adult about possible consequences. Always use a condom as well as a spermicide. Insist that your partner be on the pill. Do not rely upon your partner for your protection. The only person you can control is yourself and it is your responsibility to look out for and protect A#1--you. If you use a condom and spermicide some times but not all times, then what is the point?

After reading the articles, please do not hesitate to ask questions should you have them. I hope this is of help.

-doc