my confusion in likig girls.

[onekayjay]

I have never been with a girl, but for past year looking at breasts makes me cum more then sex with a guy.

Right now I really do not want to have sex with a guy.

can someone help my confusion?

[dancingdoc2]

Are you searching for a sexual identity?
* Straight?
* Lesbian?
* Bi-sexual?
* Bi-curious?

If not, and yet you are worrying about this--don't. If you are curious about making out and having sex with a woman, then go about finding someone willing to fool around with a woman--you. Once you get together, you can satisfy your curiosity and decide what to do next.

As for breast size, Brandye's recommendation about consulting with someone is a specialty boutique knowledgeable in fitting is a good approach. Bra makes and models vary; some can make you look perky, others, not so, still others very well endowed. Shop with the guidance of a consultant.

Not discussed is the possibility of breast augmentation. Unless there is a very important reason to do this, go with the above.

[Aphrodite_66]

Hi onekayjay,most of us gals fantasise about being with another woman and would like to have a least one sexual experience with someone of the same sexual orientation.I've been bi-curiousfor many years but haven't acted on it as yet.I do much rather prefer being with men,but ever since seeing my High School Phys Ed teacher in the changerooms in all her natural, tanned glory i've often undressed certain women in my mind and wanted to fool around with and sleep with a woman at least once in my life.Don't worry too much hun there is nothing abnormal about what you are feeling.Why don't you take Doc's advice and see where it leads you?I wish you all the best of luck whatever happens.

[onekayjay]

Thanks guys!

[Brandye]

OK, you are feeling attracted to women. We all do at some point, at least to the point that we would think "Bi-curious." About one-half of all women try with another woman at least once. About one in three of us likes it well enough to have one or more longer relationships. Some of us decide we are lesbian; some not; some keep our options open.

I have lived portions of my life as a lesbian and other portions with men, once to the point of approaching marriage. For many years now, I have been actively bi-. I guess that at three times your age or something as that, I have still not resolved the issue. Take Doc's advice; you will find many similarly curious women.