bf wants fmf and im intrested but..

[Roywyn]

hi all! *waves* ^-^ like the title says, my bf wants a thresome with annother woman and ive always wanted to be with a woman myself, not to mention that im a bit of a voyure (sp?) were i love watching guys move their bodys during sex, and think it would be really sexy watching my man with another woman, provided im there im all good with it, but that being said, he says his biggest fantisy is to watch me wit another woman, and i am all for it, however i have no clue what to do. :s i have been told i am amazing at giving oral on men, but i just dont think that its the same motions for women, nor do i even know how to aproach a woman in said manner. >< its probobly a very delacate subject and dont want to loose any of my female friends by asking if they would want to "be" with us, or even me so i could learn. i fear i would just be written off as too pervy. My boyfriend said he would like me to find the other woman though as he doesnt want to feel bad for checking out other women, feels it would be dishonest to me. so i guess i should put it simply,
1.)how is the best way to approach annother woman?
2.)how should i broach the subject?
3.)so ive perked her intrest, what now? just start making out?
4.)what the heck do i do with the tounge. ><

please help! i would realy apreatiate it.

[Roywyn]

anyone have any tips?

[Brandye]

Do a search. You will find, roughly, most of those who want a threesome think it is a great idea; many of those who have tried threesomes think it was not such a great idea.

There are those, EvilEvilKitten for instance, who can give better advice than I on this.

[Aphrodite_66]

I have always thought myself to be heterosexual but bi-curious.But now i'm not so sure.I recently started chatting with another woman who felt the same as me.We have also both fantasised about having a fmf 3some.We both have found ourselves becoming attracted to each other the more we chat and explore our sexual desires and fantasies.She has asked me to set up a 3some and i have asked a man whom i trust and have not had sex with other than mutual masturbation over the loudspeaker of my cell phone and txting.He has agreed to participate,now all we need to do is work out a time and place as we are not all from the same area.I would like to have sex with my ladyfriend and have the man watch,and then i would watch them.We might all do something together(i'ts another fantasy of mine to give a girl oral while she does it to the guy)and i'd like to be with the guy while my lady friend watches us.She has expressed similar fantasies.Whilst chatting we have both masturbated whilst thinking of each other.Neither of us has ever masturbated and orgasmed over a woman before.Does this mean we both are bi-sexual even though we haven't actually met yet?

[xsentos]

hi sexy me too want sex with two womens group i want try 3some

[Brandye]

Aphrodite, that post sounds as though it is a streaming fantasy. As long as you two women are awaiting scheduling, why not get together as just the two of you. You may find you want to go through with it or you may discover that the threesome should not be pursued.

[Aphrodite_66]

Brandye please may i ask what is a streaming fantasy as i don't have a clue what it is

[EvilEvilKitten]

With most women, sexuality is contextual and therefore somewhat elastic throughout their lives. Men, however, like what they like after their youthful flexibility sets harder than concrete.

from Sex at Dawn

[woogydice]

I believe it's safer to leave this as a fantasy and not actually go through with it.

[Qplezsthawife]

I have had 3somes before and it all boils down to the women......if both of the women are game, then it's bound to happen....

first, it should kinda be a combined effort to pick the woman......one that both can be attracted to physically and mentally....a personality can make the world of difference......as far as how to find a woman that would actually be down......you as the woman would need to make the first step......talking, flirting, etc... to get another woman's interest......believe, over time you will be able to pick which woman would be interested

so you find one......flirted with her, may have kissed her, whatever......mind you that your bf should be watching you when you're flirting from a distance, basically to see how other women react to you......and when you've gotten one, and you're all touchy-feely, maybe kissing a little and so forth, he needs to make the next move......he comes up behind you while your with this woman....maybe kisses you on your neck and ask if you're enjoying yourself.....of course you are....this is when you introduce your man because this woman has no idea of what the hell is going on

Here's where it gets tricky......she's kinda dumbfounded by now because you made it clear that you were interested in her and now you have a man up on you too.......so next step is for your man to walk off for a min.....say he had to go to the bathroom or something......you're still touchy-feely......then you explain to her what your intentions are, but in a sexy way.....playful like.....if she bites, then you're in, if not, well it was worth the try

I would meet up with her maybe one more time....go out dancing, the three of you.....this time all 3 of you interact, have fun and take it from there

What makes 3somes work is #1) are there any rules? if so, make them known first before sex starts because anything is game until it is ruled out....#2) everyone involved needs to have the understanding that everyone there is there to please the other 2 people, not themselves.....selfishness will make the experience worthless and a waste of time #3) loyality....both you and your bf have to have it.....if you think this experience will push him to cheating or even you to cheating.....don't do it.....just because you have opened your bedroom up to other people, doesn't mean that you can't cheat.....i've had a relationship with 2 women at one time and both of them were very protective of me like that......they both loved having sex with me and each other but if i had jumped out of the circle, they would be pissed.....unless all 3 of us agreed to bring in a fourth

So there you go....this is just a simple scenario of how to go about it.....i've done something similar to this before and i've done other things, but you will definitely have to make the first move.....it's easier that way.....think of it as role playing and you and your bf are secret agents or something of that nature

oh and one more thing.....forget meeting people off of the internet.....social interaction is better keyed for this type of situation