Rimming advice?

[BiCurious]

OK, I recently hooked up with a guy and he rimmed me. It was my first time trying this. I was very eager to have my ass tongued but when he did it I could barely stand it because it tickled so much I thought I'd lose my mind! I'm talking unbearably ticklish! I thought I'd get eventually get used to it and be able to enjoy it but the whole time I was just dying! I was embarrassed to let him know I was too ticklish so I just buried my face in his pillow and screamed. Has anyone else had this problem? What can I do about it? Any advice?

[dancingdoc2]

Welcome to the SI101 Board and its Forums. I hope you enjoy participating.

Here is the answer to your predicament:

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As for being ticklish, this is a common problem many men and women experience. Ticklish areas can be found anywhere on the body, like between the belly button and pubic mound, as one example. The fix is to use slightly more pressure. As for the anus, the fix is to wait to caress this area until the person receiving the caress is very highly aroused.

I hope this is of help. Got questions?

-doc

[Brandye]

Your partner should have been better attuned to your reaction. By centering and pressing harder the tickles would have become something more stimulating. Mu ch of what we find sexually stimulating does cause tickling or, pain, if not done with the proper sensitivity.