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Old 07-31-2009, 11:20 PM
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so after two years of trying to get my girl to express her fantasy two me she finaly got the courage to come out and tell me, she would like to see me with another guy im strait and dont want it geting around town but want to make her dreams come true what kind of advice can you give me to go about it

P.S if their is anyone out their living in the palm springs area that would like to talk let me know
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Old 08-01-2009, 12:34 PM
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There go the saying be careful what you wish for! lol
That said... its just a "fantasy" and sometimes those are best left to the imagination. No need for you to be uncomfortable and do something you don't want to do. Besides.. in her mind it might seem "sexy" but to see it in real life.. might turn her off or change her feelings about you.
Is she wanting a 3some w/ you and another guy? or is she actually wanting you and a guy to do stuff??? could be you let him do stuff to you instead of you actually having to do stuff to another guy?!?
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Old 08-02-2009, 04:56 PM
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You should do everything you can to make her happy, but not if it makes you uncomfortable. She should understand this.

It sounds like she could have some interesting tastes, you should talk to her about expanding your bedroom repertoire.
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Old 08-02-2009, 07:19 PM
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well the idea of being with a guy dosnt really bother me but i dont want my freinds to find out cause like i said im strait
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Perhaps you could explore her using a strap-on on you. It could be a compromise. She may get some of what she wants. I'd offer that as an option before you feel too uncomfortable with guys.
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Do you know specifically what she would like to have you do? Oral, give or receive? Anal, give or receive? Are you okay with all of that or only some? How about deep kissing (which straight guys sometimes have more problems with then some of the more hardcore stuff?) Get a pretty clear picture of what her fantasy exactly is and really think about how comfortable you are with it.
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Concern about it getting spread around town? If the people present cannot be trusted, do not even consider it.
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Old 08-03-2009, 12:57 PM
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Concern about it getting spread around town? If the people present cannot be trusted, do not even consider it.
Very good point!
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Old 08-04-2009, 01:41 AM
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i am willing to do anything to make her happy but being that im a strait guy i dont want the word geting arond town that i do that stuff so how do i go about finding a person i can trust
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