I need advice

[curiosity12]

Hi ok so this is a question that i need help with!
So i am pretty sure i am str8! i have been dating this girl for about 10 months now and our relationship is great but sometimes i look at gay porn and get hard from it! but i have no attraction to males
What am i?

[Buck Naked]

Curious, that's about it. Being gay, straight or bisexual has everything to do with attraction to a certain sex. Watching porn of any kind and getting aroused by it doesn't mean your gay. I have a couple of gay porns and I have watched them with my wife. I got excited, so did she. Didn't mean a thing.

I've posted this simple test before and I think it's perfect for you. When you are looking through a catelog or flyer and you come across the sections with the underwear ads which do stop and take a second look at?

[curiosity12]

idk never really looked at a male catalog but
i have looked at a female catalog all the time

[xoxo_SexyAndFun_oxox]

A lot of people get aroused from sexuality itself.

[LickMyGamete]

Originally Posted by xoxo_SexyAndFun_oxox

A lot of people get aroused from sexuality itself.

As I said elsewhere, I disagree! Here's my thinking..well a direct copy of my previous post:

I gotta disagree with the whole "everyone is slightly gay" or "even if a straight guy had his stuff touched by another man, he would still be turned on," logic. Not true!

If we take this thinking to the extremes (and I feel bad for doing this, but it makes my point) - do normal people get turned on by the thought of having sex with a child? Or what about sticking their dick in some farm animal? Your stuff is being rubbed in both cases, so a normal person would be turned on in both situations, by that logic? NOooo.

To look down and see a man with his hand or whatever around my dick would be just as foreign as seeing the other two examples, and all three are something I would never ever EVER wish to participate in. I don't need to try any of them to know - hey, they're not for me!

And please don't give me grief on my examples, I'm not saying they're equal, I'm just illustrating a logical jump. Something in you must say "it's okay to do x, y, z" that not every has, I think.

[CleverName]

Let me ask you a question Lick, do you watch porn?

[DVDBear]

Sorry, Lick, but the only thing you're doing is defining your OWN sexuality. Which is fine, but you can't just make it an absolute for everyone else anymore than "everyone is slightly gay" defines you. So in your case you're 100% straight . . . what's some guy who had one gay experience in his life and never did it again? 99% straight and 1% gay? I mean, who really cares and what difference does it make to anyone?

And sorry, but it IS slightly offensive applying terms like "normal people" and imagery like "having sex with a child" and "sex with a farm animal" to make your point. I UNDERSTAND your point, but you could have made it without comparing gay activities to the grotesque negatives. There are lots of other examples of what doesn't melt your butter without resorting to criminal and morally repugnant ones.

[LickMyGamete]

Originally Posted by DVDBear

Sorry, Lick, but the only thing you're doing is defining your OWN sexuality. Which is fine, but you can't just make it an absolute for everyone else anymore than "everyone is slightly gay" defines you. So in your case you're 100% straight . . . what's some guy who had one gay experience in his life and never did it again? 99% straight and 1% gay? I mean, who really cares and what difference does it make to anyone?

And sorry, but it IS slightly offensive applying terms like "normal people" and imagery like "having sex with a child" and "sex with a farm animal" to make your point. I UNDERSTAND your point, but you could have made it without comparing gay activities to the grotesque negatives. There are lots of other examples of what doesn't melt your butter without resorting to criminal and morally repugnant ones.

I'm simply going off the "it's the friction against your genitals that turns you on" angle..clearly it's NOT. Or else the many other ways (including the horrible ones I listed) would be in the turn on category, too.

I'm not playing the percent game and I'm definitely not making an all encompassing statement. I'm positive there's many other issues involved, I'm just referring to the physical act of looking down and seeing some guy with his lips wrapped around my...no. It's the person who can override that image and say "Yeah, but he's REALLY good" is what I think matters in the gay discussion...more so than "where you place your heart."

Also, with comments like "who really cares and what difference does it make to anyone," you make it sound like I'm just tossing my opinion out there without reason. Keep in mind, the OP specifically asked "What am I?"

[DVDBear]

Originally Posted by LickMyGamete

Also, with comments like "who really cares and what difference does it make to anyone," you make it sound like I'm just tossing my opinion out there without reason. Keep in mind, the OP specifically asked "What am I?"

No, I understood that and my statement was really directed at the original poster's question, not you. But I didn't express myself clearly and I see how it reads now . . . . That's what I get for writing these things past my bedtime. I apologize.

Again, I agree with your point in the sense the brain is the most powerful sex organ, if something is a turn-off to a person I don't think any amount of physical stimulation is going to do anything (except maybe give you rubbed raw genitals). Someone may be able to fantasize that something else is going on if they're horny enough (the prison scenario), but again, that's not accepting the reality of the act, it's pretending it's something else.