first time anal with a very large penis

[mascbttminwinc]

Hi all. Glad I found this board.

I'm a bisexual guy, 32 yrs old and I've had experience with a small number of guys and enjoy it immensely. I've had anal sex with two guys before...one of them was about 8" long and average girth...and the other was about 7" long and really thick. I handled it well and always ended up becoming totally pleasured...but now I have an opportunity to have relations with a guy who is literally HUGE and I'm worried.

His penis is big. Damn big. It's what I've always wanted...but I'm apprehensive about having him put that thing inside me. Should I worry? What should I do to make sure I'm ready if/when this happens?

I'm more or less concerned that I won't be able to "handle" it... but I want to and I want him to enjoy me without me being in pain or scared to death of it. Suggestions or advice...?

[sarah_rsl]

Well find an object roughly the same size and shape as his penis and then you can work out an answer for yourself.

[mascbttminwinc]

gee. thanks for the help.

[dancingdoc2]

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[shaved bi]

If you decide to have anal sex with him start by using smaller dildos and work up to his size. This will increase the size of your hole so it will be more comfortable for you. It works for me!

[DVDBear]

Originally Posted by mascbttminwinc

I'm more or less concerned that I won't be able to "handle" it... but I want to and I want him to enjoy me without me being in pain or scared to death of it. Suggestions or advice...?

Okay, now I'm curious . . . . just HOW big is this guy?

The sad reality of life is that not everyone is built to have sex with everyone else. If you follow all the advice about anal that's been posted here before (and if you've already accommodated a 7 or 8" penis with no problems you're doing everything right) but are convinced this guy might do damage don't chance it. I've had strong disagreements with other forum members who don't believe anal sex can be done without damaging yourself but it's true there are limits, more than vaginal sex. You can stretch yourself over time, but that isn't a great idea or good for you.

You can gently experiment, but warn the guy up front it may not happen and stop if it's becoming painful. I'm sure he's heard it before.

[GirlNamedJoey]

Ease into it.
Let him know your apprehentions about this. Communication is the best. Have him enter you slowly and not rush into full intercourse. He may not be able to fully penetrate you the first time or so, but remember from preschool days, Slow and steady wins the race.

His tool is the best tool in getting you ready to handle it not an object you think is the right size.

[d-boy]

Mabe you can answer this. does the size of the penis during sex make the diffrence weather a girl moans or is it just some girls do and some don't?

[Brandye]

You have a real hang-up on moaning d-boy. I suggest you ask before a date whether or not she moans so as not to be disappointed. Some do - sometimes; some do not - sometimes. The penis has nothing to do with moaning and, often, with our orgasms.

We women have a rich breadth of orgasms and no little kid should be trying to dictate the rules. We can handle it quite well.