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[Frostbite]

I enjoy anal play, both with my wife, and solo play. Communication is the key, both of you need to be able to tell the other what makes you hot, and what doesn't. Ask him if there is anything different that he wants to try with you. If he is unwilling to come out and tell you, then you may have to just shock him by wearing a strap-on to the bedroom, and 'dominating' him.

[way-to-shy!]

im 19 single and straight, i enjoy a bit of anal play from time to time, only thing is that it makes me so horny i can finnish quite quickly! feels awesome tho! if i had a GF or wife like some of you guys id love the whole strap on thing, id be a bit nervous at 1st, like real nervous lol but id learn to love it!

[RichH]

Originally Posted by constantlylearning

Now that is a novel idea to say the least...........

thank you constantlylearning

[sc_rebel14]

I am 30, and am married, but am scared to tell my wife that I would like to buy her a strap-on to use on me. I have never been on the recieving end and think about it alot. I don't know how to break the ice on the subject that I am bi curious, as I am scared that it will destroy our marriage. I love my wife very much, and don't want to lose her, but at the same time, this is something that I would like. Any suggestions on how to broach this subject to her? I have thought about sending a link with an email to a site where women are using strap-ons on guys, but not sure.

[sera300]

Originally Posted by sc_rebel14

I am 30, and am married, but am scared to tell my wife that I would like to buy her a strap-on to use on me. I have never been on the recieving end and think about it alot. I don't know how to break the ice on the subject that I am bi curious, as I am scared that it will destroy our marriage. I love my wife very much, and don't want to lose her, but at the same time, this is something that I would like. Any suggestions on how to broach this subject to her? I have thought about sending a link with an email to a site where women are using strap-ons on guys, but not sure.

Use caution on this. You have to choose are you willing to risk her freaking out about being bi-curious and letting it happen over a way you are unsure of? How close are you both in communicating? What is her views on sex?

With my past marriage; I might run for the hills, cutting him loose...not certain. One matter which is a big player in this; in a relationship w/another woman [you] he may be able to deal with it since it's self blame [I was not woman enough to keep him or it was a fling]; another man makes a woman say "there is no way I can compare to that" and often women will go out immediately to challenge/test their own sexuality...that a man does find them sexually satisfying. No logic here just emotions.

[smallestoftheclan]

Consider this, you tell her how you feel.
She's ok with it, tries it once and it's something she likes and you don't what then? Do you continue, because it is something she enjoys? Would she ask you to continue knowing it is something you don't?
She's ok with it tries it once and says never again. What do you do if you find that you do like it?
If you both don't well then you're in agreement and you can throw the strap-on away together.
She's not ok with it. Doesn't even want to try it once, which she has the right to decide for herself. Is it so important that you end the relationship?

[luvpussy]

hey. i think the guy should be rite up with his wife ,if she will wear the strap thing ?as she mentioned she would .THEN GO FOR IT . hells bells sure would love to meet her my self ..as i am a straight man my .self just cant help but to love the pussy ..orsome anal play (when i can get a partner to play with)