She Wants To Try A 3-Some?

[Morbid]

Well first off, I'm 18, my gf is 16, and her friend is going to be 16 in a month.

Anyway, I was over at my girlfriends house tonight watchin a movie and her friend, which is my friend as well, was over there. Now the backstory here is that our friend introduced me to my gf. She also use to like me. We talked about meeting up before and maybe bein friends with benefits. She had sent me pics, I had sent her pics, etc. After I got with my gf tho 3 months ago, me and our friend had basically distanced ourselves. My gf and I have done nothing sexual yet besides me finger her a couple of times. She is wanting to do things but is uncomfortable with her body and is just nervous which I completely understand. Well tonight I fingered her and our friend was there as well. She knew what was going on. After I left anyhow my gf txts me and tells me she seriously wants to do more and try more with me. So I'm like woo! Well she also tells me her and our friend have talked about a 3some maybe. Cause they joke around all the time as if they are lesbians or bi together. I talked to them a bit about it and they sound like they want to try it. I am weary on it tho cause my gf and I both are pretty jealous people. What I don't want to happen is my gf go bi and be with our friend more than me, or like her more than me if u get what I mean. So I asked if they wanted to try things soley with me as a 3way, or them alone, and they said more with just me but maybe with them alone after me and my gf get closer and she's more experienced. So I told them we will talk about it one day and decide what to do with it..

What do u guys think about this? I don't think I should say yes let's do it but at the same time I want to try it. I don't want to try it though if it's gonna end up in a big jealousy issue or ruin any friendships or something.

[curious_woman]

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[sera300]

This has disaster written all over it. Too young & inexperienced.

[demonbuttercup]

So everyone is not a virgin? but just haven't had sex w/ each other?
I just think it's strange for your first time to do more sexually would be w/ another person there as well.

Were you guys fingering and making out in front of the friend?? or she just happened to be in the house somewhere and kinda figured what was going on?? I hate when people do that lol....especially in the same room as me!!!

I mean it already sounds like a big jealousy issue...and then what happens if after that... her friend spends the nite on the weekend...and all you can imagine is them having naked pillow fights and making out all nite when really they could be just in there PJs watching a scary movie... see what I mean? Your mind will go wild....

Not to mention that you are technically an "adult" doing sexual things w/ a 15 yr old... yes I know 16 in a month..but still... kinda creepy!

[Ducy]

NOPE!!!

You guys are both very jealous. You are all really young, and you dont she is too nervous to try anything with you yet, but suddenly bam she wants a threesome? Not a good idea at all. I mean if the realtionship was fun and you werent worried about it then I would say do it. But since you guys have such a "weak" relationship" dont because 3 months is not long enough to build a strong enough relationship to survive it. (Although I dont know if any relationship could be strong enough to survive the complications)

[Thresher_V]

Always careful in a threesome, You may turn out to be a little too expendable...


It's like drilling for oil, it can be a big payoff, but there's always the chance you'll come up dry...

[EvilEvilKitten]

Excuse me - you're 18; it is time for you to stop messing around being a kid. Look at all of the possible consequences then make a decision using your brain and not your emotions.

[Morbid]

Haha yeah. I dk why I really bothered even posting this about it.. I mean. The night after or w/e we were all talking about it, my gf realized she didn't really want to as I thought. But it did kinda make her see that she's ready to have sex with me, which was a big surprise kinda. Apparently after our friend told her she wanted to have sex with me, my gf didn't like the idea of it. Thought she wanted to just do it so she could be with me. So yeah I didn't think it'd actually happen. They could tell I was backing out of it kinda that same night.

And to whoever asked, she was in the room with us when I was fingering her. Don't see exactly why it made her more comfortable, but I think it was more that we were watchin the movie at the same time and not focusin on that specifically then she just got confused with the whole 3some thing. Cause they joke around together all the time as if they were bi with each other to kinda tease, but when it comes down to it, they aren't ready for anything like that.

[demonbuttercup]

So now your g/f just wants to have sex w/ you to keep you... since she knows her friend would sleep w/ you too... that's what that sounds like.

And yea no matter how "discreet" you think you are being when watching a movie or whatever w/ people in the room... they know!!! lol

Seems like a lot of young girls "act" like they could be bi... just b/c they see Girls Gone wild commercials... they think it's "cool" to be like that.
I think it's a slap in the face to people who actually are bi... not just bi when they are drunk... or when they think it makes them sexy.

[Thresher_V]

Reminds me of the whole "Metro-Sexual" thing. When pretending to be the gay stereotype is the new cool...