She Wants To Try A 3-Some?

[Morbid]

I don't know why you guys keep dragging this out. I've told you the 3-some ordeal is done with and has been for a week now. Just drop it and stop telling me my own feelings. I come to this site for advice and instead I get people trying to run my life and make my decisions for me, when none of you know me. Sure I could date around, have sex with a bunch of people but ya know what? High school isn't over. Sure I am graduated, sure, I am working while schools going on, but I'm still hanging out with the same crowds. I'm not in college yet and I haven't met any new random people. So I can't go around and "experiment" as you would say. I really love this girl and I don't care if it's not love to you guys. It is to me and her and that is all that matters. We are happy together, why would I give up on that?

[sera300]

High school is over for you, you are a man playing with "jail bait". You need to be the man and step up to mom re: your actions. Re: your G/F, she is indecisive, young, and you will most likely be followed/replaced by another in time and be hurt. What many see are bad choices here. Thoughts of a threesome [on her end] yet not willing to admit to mom she is with you [your other thread]. This is a young lady who needs time to grow & a chance to grow up.

Food for thought though--no sex. Mom caught you & FYI down in KY they are tough on those who fool with a minor.

[EvilEvilKitten]

You get defensive only because you know we're right. Once you cross the 18 year old threshold, baby - it is all over. So it doesn't matter if it is lust, infatuation, or love - it still means JAIL. Which is what we have been trying to get you to see for some time now.

[sera300]

Originally Posted by EvilEvilKitten

You get defensive only because you know we're right. Once you cross the 18 year old threshold, baby - it is all over. So it doesn't matter if it is lust, infatuation, or love - it still means JAIL. Which is what we have been trying to get you to see for some time now.

Yes, EEK and a registered "sex offender" for life.

[Ducy]

reminds me of a guy who was joining the army, his girlfriend had sex with him, and then she turned around and said she was raped cuz she was scared of what her parents would think if they found out, later admitted after the trial that she lied, and now the guy still cant join the military though cuz he is a sex offender

[sera300]

Originally Posted by Ducy

reminds me of a guy who was joining the army, his girlfriend had sex with him, and then she turned around and said she was raped cuz she was scared of what her parents would think if they found out, later admitted after the trial that she lied, and now the guy still cant join the military though cuz he is a sex offender

There are several classes; however, all stay with you for life and ban one forever from "freedoms". A friend of mine was out with his younger g/f he was 18, she was 17 and together for a while. Mom pressed charges & he was Jailed. Years ago there was no registry; however, this alone ruined him & his career. Really was a shame, now one of the reasons parents cannot press charges it must be done through Law Enforcement or the ADA. Often younger women get caught by a parent and go to the ER claiming a "rape" due to pressure of a parent. Often the police can get the truth out of it but it still leaves many disgruntled. Meanwhile, those who actually are raped are scrutinized secondary to these actions. The majority of rape victims do not press charges.

[Ducy]

Yea one of the people on my street is crazy and wanted my neighbor to marry her daughter (He was 19 she was 17 and they were simply good friends) and she would have him spend the night when she was out of town and stuff. Then when he said he wasnt interested, she called the cops, claimed rape and such, and he was arrested, spent forever going to court and such until about a year later when they finally figured out it was just another psycho parent