She Wants To Try A 3-Some?

[Morbid]

Nah Demon we were talking about it before the threesome thing even came up. She's always wanted to be sexual and try things just has always been too nervous and afraid. She knows I'll be extra careful with her and won't use her. So after the 3some thing went down she just kinda decided, let's just do it and not wait cause she's tired of talking about it and putting it off. So she's basically wanting to just face her fears for what she wants.

I can tell by what she tells me that she truly is ready and wants to do it for herself and not for me or anyone else.

[Ephemera]

Why not break off the three month relationship and have some real fun together, no strings attached?

18 is no time to be in a long relationship, as I am discovering.

[Ducy]

Definitely not time for a LTR...best idea is to make friends have sex, find what you like. (In and out of bed )

[EvilEvilKitten]

Excuse me? She didn't want to and now she does want to? "I can tell by what she tells me"??

BS

It is by what she DOES that you tell or not - words are just toys for her to push you/pull you where she wants you to go.

The girl is flaky - either she puts this thing together or it isn't happening. Make it HER job to do.

[Morbid]

Ephemera and Ducy you guys can't make those kinds of statements and judgements on someone you don't know. I'm sorry but I'd rather have a solid relationship than just sex all the time. Maybe if you knew I was single for 2-3 years straight while homeschooling then you'd see I am looking for companionship and a mature relationship rather than just straight out sex. I'm sorry but grow up.

And EEK I know words aren't a definite answer. She wants to do things I can tell that by her words AND actions. She is just nervous.

[EvilEvilKitten]

The curse of home-schooling!

Of course she's nervous - but you ONLY do such adventures when the desire outweighs the fear and NOT before that.

[Morbid]

Yeah. When they first brought it up I was like in shock they were serious, but as I said it just sounded fun to them and they hadn't thought about the serious side of it till I brought it up. I didn't like the idea really at all, and I was asking them questions and stuff to see if they even were near ready and I knew they weren't.

[Ducy]

Wait wait wait...ME, grow up?

Dont make me laugh morbid. First off, I said it is definitely not time fro a LTR. You know why? Because your 18 and you need to start dating people so that you can learn what you like.

I was single up until I was 16, and it wasnt even a relationship it was me being some girls servant. The next one wasnt till a year and a half later.

The reason I say have sex isnt becaues thats the only thing you want. Nor is it because Im some immature "kid". By having sex, you prevent "testosterone poisoning" which can make you make really really REALLY stupid decisions. You also get to relieve stress and you can strengthen bonds with people.

Ask an of the major "helpers" of this site, they will all advocate the same thing, date around and find what you like. I mean hell you said it yourself 'maybe if you knew I was single for 2-3 years youd know I was looking for a companion' Obviously you are just trying to latch on to the first warm body you get.

...grow up...ha

[EvilEvilKitten]

And if this is the same girlfriend who is living with her mother that you have been talking about in your other thread - the answer is not just NO but HELL NO!! No 3-somes!!!

[sera300]

Originally Posted by EvilEvilKitten

And if this is the same girlfriend who is living with her mother that you have been talking about in your other thread - the answer is not just NO but HELL NO!! No 3-somes!!!

Morbid:
You are killing all here. No LTR you are 18 and she is 16; ready to marry? If not why are you getting so involved rather than experimenting. Regardless of her actual biological age, maturity wise she is a baby. You hanging on? Why? Look at why you are doing this--introspection is most helpful.

When you allow yourself to live in a narrow world you are limited by your own fears/insecurities. LTR with a 16 y/o? You know better, you are setting yourself up for pain.