I had gay sex, now what?

[sera300]

Hate to tell you both [Sarah & Crack] WOMEN ARE NOT BUILT IN BI....And sex play among men does happen, the frequency is limited by the ones choice, does not make one gay.

[Buck Naked]

Originally Posted by CrackBaby

you guys are confusing men with women. men are not built in bi like women. i'm not being a dick, i'm being truthful.

for two guys to even have the conversation that they had, to whip out their dicks and start rubbing one out to porn (which we are giving the benefit of the doubt as being heterosexual porn), and to then proceed to give eachother blowjobs... they're totally homosexuals.

it's not experimenting. a normal male would be throwing up his past two meals before he got within 2 feet of another guy's dick like that.

its best you accept it dude. i guess you can try and get laid by a chick and see how that goes, but unless you did this totally out of desperation from not finding one that was willing to have sex with you then you are definitely gay.

Unreal. How homophobic are you. Experimentation is a very normal thing. I never went through it, but I would never judge anyone for it. The fact you are so black and white on this topic makes me honestly question you. Anyone secure in their sexuality would never be so rigid as you are in your assessment.

[Ephemera]

Don't waste your time, Buck.

[CrackBaby]

Originally Posted by sera300

Hate to tell you both [Sarah & Crack] WOMEN ARE NOT BUILT IN BI....And sex play among men does happen, the frequency is limited by the ones choice, does not make one gay.

actually women are according to most of the research. guys don't sex play unless they are gay - all that experimenting is really just revealing guys that are in the closet, maybe they choose to stay in it afterwards.

Originally Posted by Buck Naked

Unreal. How homophobic are you. Experimentation is a very normal thing. I never went through it, but I would never judge anyone for it. The fact you are so black and white on this topic makes me honestly question you. Anyone secure in their sexuality would never be so rigid as you are in your assessment.

everyone is basing the possibility of experimenting on just the idea that there must be some that did it. but really this never happens.

[NinjaMan]

What about Bi men? Just because 2 guys have a sexual expereince does not mean they are gay, one or both of them could be bi.

Besides, I think everyone is a t least a little bit bi. I mean come on. (Pun intended.)

Oh hi guys. I'm back. :P

[LiL_TrUbLe]

Don’t listen to CrackBaby he does not know what he is talking about.
There is nothing wrong with experimenting and trying new things.

Don’t worry to much on if you are gay or bi, you don’t need a label. Keep experimenting and you will decide what your sexual preference is.

Am happy for you that your parents did not trip like most do when you where honest with them about your situation.

[vibrator]

Your probably gay and there is nothing wrong with being gay. Accept it and enjoy your life.

[NinjaMan]

No, I'm defiantly bi. Now that I've had sex with a man and a woman, I can say it sincerely.

[LickMyGamete]

I gotta disagree with the whole "everyone is slightly gay" or "even if a straight guy had his stuff touched by another man, he would still be turned on," logic. Not true!

If we take this thinking to the extremes (and I feel bad for doing this, but it makes my point) - do normal people get turned on by the thought of having sex with a child? Or what about sticking their dick in some farm animal? Your stuff is being rubbed in both cases, so a normal person would be turned on in both situations, by that logic? NOooo.

To look down and see a man with his hand or whatever around my dick would be just as foreign as seeing the other two examples, and all three are something I would never ever EVER participate in. I don't need to try any of them to know - hey, they're not for me!

And please don't give me grief on my examples, I'm not saying they're equal, I'm just illustrating a logical jump. Something in you must say "it's okay to do x, y, z" that not every has, I think.

[Buck Naked]

Agreed. There's just some things that you're into, and some things you're not. If you're not attract to the same sex, you're just not.