Finding a girl for threesome

[hisbabydoll]

Hi! I know there are tons of forums on this topic and they all say the same thing. But, my fiance and I want to have a threesome and he wants me to find the girl so I am comfortable with who it is. We are very secure in our relationship and are ready for whatever would come with having another woman in bed. We have done similar things before but never an actual "threesome". How do I find someone other than a friend or personals on the internet for something like this? Is there a way you can ask a person to have sex with you and your bf without sounding like you're completely nuts? Please help!!

[cjb1981]

Well there are sites like adult friend finder, I have no idea if they have some kind of section there for something like that. Also, in most sex toy shops they have a "wanted board" for things like that, you could probably try there. Though, I don't know if there is any type of screening to make sure that those people are free of any illness, be it sexual or mental. Be careful.

[katiebug]

Unless you have someone in mind already that you know IRL, I think going through the web with adult friend finder, craigslist or something similar would be your best bet. I have never done a threesome like that before but if I were to do one and meet someone off the net, I would get together with the person first (and your BF) and sit down and just talk. Meet in a cafe or restaurant or somewhere public and spend a little time getting to know them to see if there is any chemistry and make sure they aren't a total whack job. Then you can decide how you feel and invite them over. Personally, I'd rather have a threesome with a semi-stranger rather than someone who was close to me and my BF so that if things went bad or if we ended up regretting it later, we wouldn't have to see that person anymore. That could make things awkward.

[dancingdoc2]

> Personally, I'd rather have a threesome with a semi-stranger rather than someone who was close to me and my BF so that if things went bad or if we ended up regretting it later, we wouldn't have to see that person anymore. That could make things awkward.

Good point. Also good is asking for her to come with papers. Now, that would be awkward, also..........

Maybe what would work instead is an inflatable doll.

[machine_rat]

I suppose that your potential area to search (whether online or real world) will vary depending on if you want a simpler 'threesome' or a full on 'three-way'.

[SweetJamieLee]

What you are really talking about is a form of swinging. Either "intuit" out other couples, or go formal.

You have to decide. Single or share? Most men want single, yet it is much safer to "share."

Think: an unencumered man or woman is like a ship without a rudder. Much more drama with someone unattached. Those of us attached have a reason to behave.

Swinging is not a nice word to some, and if you want to "share," it may offer the most logical choice.

I would look there if I were you. Food 4 thought.