When was your first gay sex & what was it like?

[DVDBear]

Originally Posted by imabadbadman

Now I am 34 and have had my own experiences, about 20-25 in 20 yrs and as of TODAY I am still confused....I gave a guy oral a couple weeks ago because my g/f wanted to see it but I LOVED it and SO DID HE.

I feel like my head is spinning right now.....don't know what I want MORE!! I love both but it's just not that easy. any advice?

Why? Your girlfriend seems cool with it. If you truly want BOTH just keep the honesty and communication open with her, but if she starts to get uncomfortable about it then you need to make some decisions.

And not to sound like a broken record . . . . . . always use protection.

[imabadbadman]

Originally Posted by DVDBear

Why? Your girlfriend seems cool with it. If you truly want BOTH just keep the honesty and communication open with her, but if she starts to get uncomfortable about it then you need to make some decisions.

And not to sound like a broken record . . . . . . always use protection.

Yes she is cool with it as you say but I feel alot of times I HAVE to have it...don't know if that's desire or fantasy. It doesn't affect us but it's so hard to find someone you can play with that is safe that isn't clingy or uncomfortable to be around.

I think I have a issue stemming from childhood and alot of denial issues with it. Some know about me but everyone else doesn't it. It's not like I am a different person, I just like BOTH sexual experiences.

I just don't know what to do with myself now to make ME happy....I want both and to be comfy with that but I know I can't in the publics eyes. I mean imagine If I walked up to a guy and said "hey man your an attractive man that looks like your packin something I'd like to play with".........i'd get punched in the face. So how?

[DVDBear]

Well yeah . . . . you can't do that. You would need to meet like minded guys the same way gay guys do. I mean, I'm not recommending cruise lines or Craigslist but if you're looking for a friends with benefits situation put a profile on some gay and bi-sexual dating sites. Believe me, there's plenty of guys out there just looking for sex and not necessarily a relationship. Also gay bars. But as with any "hook up" scenario PROCEED WITH CAUTION, get to know the guy a little bit (don't just drive over to his place after a ten minute conversation) and be VERY HONEST about what you're after. Is there risk? Sure, but you can take a large percentage of the danger out of the situation by using common sense and thinking first with your big head and not the little one.

[imabadbadman]

Thank you for all your input...but even when I am single I have a hard time dealing with me being bi and get so horny and worked up and have NO clue where to start to look for someone. I'm not looking for a relationship or a sleeping partner...just some good hot hard sweaty safe fun.

Can you point me in the right direction of some bi sites I could go browse? I really haven't seen any....most are swinger or gay.

[DVDBear]

I can't personally, because I'm gay and haven't really looked for any. I see lots of bi-guys on the gay sites I use . . . . . again, if you read their profiles you'll be able to tell which ones are interested in just sex and which ones want more. And if you put in your profile that you're bi and only looking for one-off sex or a fuck buddy that's who will hit you up.

In most bigger cities there are gay sex clubs as well where you can go to just to get off. I don't know about your area, but with a little digging (or googling) you should be able to find out. Here in Portland it's a place called Steam and they can be listed as gyms or bath houses. A little reading will tell if they're more than that (hint: if they list free condoms that's usually a good sign it's NOT just a gym!) Again, you need to be careful . . . . there's a lot more out there than just HIV that's transmittable even if you don't have anal sex so protect yourself.

[fenix_3]

Dear God, reading this forum got me burning hot ... hmm ... I'll get over the first time here: walking home, some young gay guy was clearly giving me the look-over (I was 21) from the other side of the street, and I followed him past some houses to near a river past them. I think the fact I had long hair, a baggy silk shirt and tight leather jeans may have appealed to him, but I'm guessing He sucked me off a little, but I didn't come - too nervous. I was going to take him in my mouth but his penis was, er, well it looked like it had been through the wars. Besides, I was scared of catching something, and he gave me the air of someone who shall we say had been around a bit, and he seemed surprised by a request for condoms. So there you go.

My *real* first time was a few years later when I was on my way home from a bar and got picked up by a total stranger. That was my first anal sex experience, and I loved it, though it was outdoors on a cold night. He started without a condom, but I stopped him after a minute and had him put one on. That was difficult, because my eyes were practically rolling up into the back of my head with pleasure from the sensation of his naked cock in me. I'd tried a few times before, but it hurt like hell as some as some guy tried to stick it in. So we stopped, he rubbered up, and fucked me til he came a few minutes later.

I've had several guys come in my mouth before and since over the years, and that was (mostly) terrific (though I consider myself almost entirely straight - don't laugh), but ever since I've fantasised to an insane degree about being topped by someone bareback. I have desperately vivid masturbatory fantasies about the exact moment someone shoots their load in my ass, whether I could feel it flowing into me, the sound of them groaning and thrusting, the works. But, like someone said, who can you trust, guys being guys? I can fantasise about taking the risk, but too scared to do it in real life.

Mind you, I've shot my load that way in other guys, while wearing a condom, and enjoyed it. Mounting and fucking another guy is pleasantly like being in a woman, and I usually come pretty quickly. I had one or two requests to take the rubber off, but nope. I played safe (with some regret).

[CLVR-HNDS_GUY]

With me i think i was about 15, i was over a older friends place which i had known for since i was a young boy, he went for a shower once and i asked if he wanted a hand, said no at first
the next time i went over there and we both had a shower and washed each other, after that we went back to the room and just masturbated each other and try different things, i have done anal, its not too bad
a few times we had just sucked each other off or try different things to cum
I liked it when i was younger and could cum, we talk occasionly and touch each others, being the age i am now, i cant seem to cum now, he does cum everytime when we do things.
The friend said with him it started for him was a couple of mates from high school wrestling around and it went from there
Me personally i still prefer the female touch and look at them all over at their body

[sania]

I was around 18, we used to stay in hostel with single occupancy rooms. I had injured my leg while playing basket ball. I was advised a rest for a week. My friends used to meet me. Once at around 10-11 pm, one of my friend, came to chat.I was in shorts and t-shirt. She started to talk various topics and slowly caressing my leg. She kept hand on various places on my body. I did not feel her intentions. Slowly she started moving up my legs. I felt good. But I pushed her hand aside.
Next night she again came and this time she put her hand on my shorts all the time she was talking. I felt nice and i did not react. Slowly she slid her hand inside and rubbed my pussy. It was wet. I never liked the idea of sharing with any female. But this happened. She removed my shorts and rubbed her face against my panties. I did not react and she removed my panties. Within no time she was giving nice oral treatment. I enjoyed it. I thought its over.
But, next day she again came and stripped herself and slept naked beside me. I said what are you up to. She said nothing. But started kissing and playing with my breast and again finally gave me a oral.
I had an oral experience earlier with a male when i was around 14 but I had never been touched by anyone on my inners. I was enjoying it but I was not comfortable with another girl. I kept my eyes closed thinking that she was a boy and let her play with me. Suddenly she brought her pussy on my face and started rubbing it on my lips. She was expecting me to reciprocate. I thought its enough now. I got upset and told her to stop and get lost. She went away.
After that she used to meet me but never tried to do that. May be she had found some another partner.
I sometimes felt bad,that , I was rude to her. But it was a past and it cannot be changed. Even today I dont like sex with other women. I enjoy being dominated by men. Even in threesome, I prefer third a male.

[2little]

wow, i am sorry but reading these post made me horny ha ha

but my first was..

my husband and i were together maybe 3 months still dating (believe me i wish it would have happened before, i hate cheating)

but anyways i was 18 and had my share of men, the women of the night was approx. 32. she had just split from her husband and asked me to come over for a couple drinks. she needed someone to talk to. so i went. we were sitting on her bed and she was talking about how confused she was and this and that, i couldn't understand what she was talking about "confused". than she told me she had a couple of friends who were lesbian and she was curious about it. i said you know i was curious too (back then) as well. so she said (remembering very well) "i know your with ******" than she kissed me. and i returned the kiss. she began to feel my pussy, of course i was wet... and i was feeling hers. than we started 69. i was ok with eating her out, what i loved though was her boobs, till this day i love tits. but i still love the cock.

[NinjaMan]

The best part about being Bi is loving ALL of thses stories, keep them coming! :P