Pls Help..sex

[litto21]

Hi everyone, I'm currently in a relationship with a girl (I'm a girl too), we're both bisexual.

Well the thing is we've gotten closer, to the point when we're ready for sex..but I have no idea what to do. I mean foreplay, 'going down' on her, 'fingering' her I've done.. I really want to please her

So I thought I'd post here and see if someone can help me.. or provide me a link to a site which teaches how to have sex between 2 women.. I don't know if its just humping one another, wait till one comes then the other humps or take turns.. so sorry if the way I'm describing it wrong

tnks

[Brandye]

litto,

You are only limited by your imagination. There are lesbian sites that you can find on a search that will have books and discussions.

Please note that many (perhaps most) "lesbian" sites are really for the prurient interest of men. You will notice quite quickly which are the real ones.

[curious_woman]

I'd say use a dildo/vibrator on each other. Don't have one? Find some object that is usable, my rule for sex in general is improvise.

[dancingdoc2]

> Well the thing is we've gotten closer, to the point when we're ready for sex..but I have no idea what to do. I mean foreplay, 'going down' on her, 'fingering' her I've done.. I really want to please her

From your account it seems that you have "been there done that" with regard to what works for me should work for her. What's next?

As mentioned, a vibrator works great. Instead of the small personal type, I recommend one of the big ones like a Hitachi "Wand" or Wahl "Coil". These double as a body massager and a genital massager. The idea being that you can give each other massages, after which you transition to an erotic massage.

The Wand has a baseball like head so what I recommend is to grasp it with the palm of your hand and extend a finger when you want to get personal with it. The Coil comes with an assortment of heads.

> So I thought I'd post here and see if someone can help me.. or provide me a link to a site which teaches how to have sex between 2 women.. I don't know if its just humping one another, wait till one comes then the other humps or take turns.. so sorry if the way I'm describing it wrong

In addition to what Brandye recommends, I suggest going back to basics and read the how-to articles in the Index on making out, learning about the female sexual response from both a physical and a physiological standpoint. The art of kissing and caressing, making out in general, in order to turn a woman on are covered in depth over about three articles.

Rather than helping each other to get off serially {first one then the other) why not work mutual pleasuring using the 69 position? In addition to one or the other of you being on top, there is also the side-by-side variation of this position.

[BTDTWoman]

All of my female partners strongly prefer cunnilingus to penetration with objects, vibrators, or fingering. Beginners might try kissing and fondling before striving for rocketship orgasms.

If you are going down on her for the first time ever, don't dive right in as may be too intense for both of you. Start with getting a good look at her vulva so you know where everything is - it may be very different than your vulva. Kiss, stroke, and nibble the mound and thighs.

When you are both ready for the next step maybe not the first times, use your tongue. Don't stop until she really wants you to stop. Relax - you don't have to be the best or get it perfect to give her pleasure.