Lesbian sex - what's it like? - should I?

[CrazyJenny]

If you've read my other threads so far, you have an idea of my situation....

I'm still a virgin, but I'm really interested in my current girlfriend. And since I'm still learning about the fact that I'm bi (and I'm unsure whether I'm a lesbian or not because I've never been attracted to a man), I'm wondering what it feels like to have sex with another woman.

1. How does it feel when she licks you..... down there?
2. Other than the licking thing, what else is there (if it's just the tongue, it sounds kind of boring)
3. Can you catch STD's from lesbian sex?
4. Since I've only been with my gf for less than a month, should I go for it? (I know she wants me).

[Brandye]

I'll try 2 and 3.
What else there is is limited only by your imagination. Generally, women are more cuddly and aware of one another's response than men are. It can be very pleasant for those of us who like it; it could be, at best, a big nothing for women not into one another.

STDs are a real danger with lesbian sex - if the women involved sleep around. Generally, lesbian relationships are more stable than gay male relationships but not always entirely so. When you meet new women, there are the same risks as with any sexual relationship. Body fluids are the medium of exchange of STDs and any time this exchange takes place, there are risks.

Many women (I believe a majority) do have some curiousity regarding sex with other women. Studies in girls' schools indicate a higher than expected level of sexual behaviour among the students. More recent studies have found a surprising incidence of outside female relationships among married women. How much of the curiousity is turnd into action, no one knows but it is hardly an unnatural curiousity. Whether or not any one woman should should explore is up to her.

[michelle2004]

I have never been too far with a girl, but I know some info as to what else you can do besides licking.

There is scissoring.....the scissors being your legs and you basically rub your geneitals together.

There are also a lot of toys and fingering just like with heterosexual relationships.

And its not just licking there is sucking and biting and hard rubbing. Most women get off from clitorial stimulaiton anyways, hence why lesbian sex is satisfying.

[Brandye]

Perhaps, michelle, but many of us simply find women to be more intuitive and knowledgeable lovers. Besides, no one's virility is challenged simply because we want to make love and the orgasm is not necessary.

[michelle2004]

well yeah that is true too....but I was just stating that as sex. I wasn't thinking of sex in a loving manner but yet for pleasure....its my negative experiences I guess.

[curious_woman]

Does that mean I wouldn't enjoy lesbian sex because I don't like clitoral stimulation? I think that sentence was a bit out of place, theres always dildos and fingers, its not just strictly clit praise. Don't forget about strap-ons!

[little bit]

You are so right there are so many ways a woman can pleas another woman I love playing with another girl [little bit]you

[bilovely]

Just have fun with her. There are going to be so many more things you can do when you are just there with her, find what she likes and let her find what you like, don't just think we have to do this or do this act....

[SweetJamieLee]

Your heart will never lead you to the wrong place. You are who you are, enjoy it.