Lesbian sex - what's it like? - should I?

[lov2lickit23]

maybe this post is to late mabe you tryed it but if you didnt take my advice you'll love the outcome.

[dancingdoc2]

I would say you are too late having replied to a thread that is nearly a year and a half old.

[mac_chick]

Originally Posted by CrazyJenny

If you've read my other threads so far, you have an idea of my situation....

I'm still a virgin, but I'm really interested in my current girlfriend. And since I'm still learning about the fact that I'm bi (and I'm unsure whether I'm a lesbian or not because I've never been attracted to a man), I'm wondering what it feels like to have sex with another woman.

1. How does it feel when she licks you..... down there?
2. Other than the licking thing, what else is there (if it's just the tongue, it sounds kind of boring)
3. Can you catch STD's from lesbian sex?
4. Since I've only been with my gf for less than a month, should I go for it? (I know she wants me).

1. This is kind of subjective, as I'm sure the way your partner touches you, with any body part, will highly depend on the partner. I've had a few, and no other female, or male has ever sent jolts through my body the way my girlfriend does. It's the most amazing feeling in the world.

2. There's a lot of things lesbians can do besides oral. My girlfriend really enjoys strattling one of my legs (tribadism) and me rubbing her clit w/ my leg until she cums. It's actually quite enjoyable. Not all women can orgasm this way though. I personally, can't get off this way. I typically need more stimulation. It gets me hot and bothered, but to finish the job, she normally ends up going down on me or fingering me, or using a strap on.

3. You run some of the same risks as straight sex. If you know your parter well, you should feel more comfortable, but always take precautions.

4. That's really a question you and your girlfriend have to answer. If it's something you are comfortable with, go for it. If she's someone you could see yourself with for a long time, make it memorable. I've been with my girlfriend for 3 years, and for the first few weeks of our relationship, we teased eachother incessantly, texts, IMs, pics, quick fingerings (with clothes on), here and there, until one weekend, we got a hotel room. I could hardly keep from ripping her clothes off before we were even in the door. The first time she went down on me, I was a little nervous, but it was extacy. She was amazing. We had the whole weekend, and that first night, we had sex on and off for 14 straight hours (between showers and eating). Point is, we never even left the room.

If you dig her a lot, make it special. You won't regret it. Thinking about our first sex romp together still sends tingles up my spine. We actually are getting a room at that same hotel for our anniversary this summer.

[lilmama1396]

well im a lesbian and i love it when my girlfriend eats me out and no thats not the only way u could have

[Iwantyou13]

I am married with 2 kids and I have always wanted to be with a woman I dont know why my marriage is great and my kids a wonderful.. but I guess its the thought of something different that I want.

[Iwantyou13]

Originally Posted by lilmama1396

well im a lesbian and i love it when my girlfriend eats me out and no thats not the only way u could have

well do you just like her pleasuring you or do you like to pleasure her to.. thats what I would like is to give it to her listen to her scream...

[Rouge]

Differences I've noticed (even though the thread was dead for a while, it could help someone).

Women: Take more time, are very in-tune to the other woman's body, and the process isn't about orgasm so much as general enjoyment. Sex with women I've found is more low key; it's not as aggressive. I'm sure there are women out there that could give me a run for my money, but I haven't seen it yet.

Men: More aggressive and do spur of the moment very well. Men are more centered on orgasm (they mostly get only one, so it's understandable), and I've found that men are good to go to for a very energetic romp. My partner is a little different in that he's very playful and is more focused on me than on himself (I often say he's more like a woman, but aggressive in the right way).

Depends on the mood I'm in I suppose.

[raunchy gal]

I have always been curious about lesbian relationships.I have always considered myself to be straight but i have had a few crushes on a few female friends.I even fantasised about being in a relationship with one of them.She was bi and could sense how i felt about her.She said she wasn't interested in being with me so i wasn't so obvious in letting my feelings show.Does this mean i could be bi even though i've never been with a woman other than experimenting as kids with cousins and friends.I would not turn a woman down if she was interested in me and i liked her too.And i do really like clitoral stimulation and wonder what it would be like for a woman to lick me or rub my clit.I also wonder what it would be like to please a woman in that way

[dancingdoc2]

> and wonder what it would be like for a woman to lick me or rub my clit. I also wonder what it would be like to please a woman in that way

> Does this mean i could be bi even though

To be bi-sexual means to being capable of being emotionally attracted to members of either gender. This you may not be; however, you may very well be bi-curious in which you are able to be sexually attracted to a member of the same gender sufficient to satisfy your fantasy or curiosity about the dynamics of making love.

[SickHypnotic]

1. How does it feel when she licks you..... down there?
Obviously it feels good my dear....
Where do I begin. Fist off you have to consider the mental aspect of it. I am a bisexual woman and I love being with both men and women but I do prefer women. That is just my personal attraction. I find women just a little more attractive. That's what it boils down to. If you aren't attracted to the person you are with then whether he or she is going down on you won't matter. You know?


2. Other than the licking thing, what else is there (if it's just the tongue, it sounds kind of boring)
Oh oh oh darling sometimes just the tongue can be VERY good. Again it just boils down to how your body responds to the touches, licks, caresses, etc. If you are comfortable you can use toys such as vibrators or strap ons. You can role play do many things. It's all about your comfort level and what turns you on.


3. Can you catch STD's from lesbian sex?
Many of my friends have asked me this and I will say it again and again. Yes. It is very possible and easy. Sex is sex. STDs are transmitted through vaginal cum just the same as a man's. There are safe sex practices that can be used if you like. It's always good to get tested at least twice a year if you are sexually active with multiple partners. Even once a year if you are in a relationship, some STDs take years to surface. (not to scare you) But its just a good thing to get in the habit of.

4. Since I've only been with my gf for less than a month, should I go for it? (I know she wants me).
You let this happen when you want to. No matter how much she wants it. It's about when you both want it to happen. Just let it happen. Don't plan it out. Go with the flow. It's so much more satisfying when it just happens when you are both ready. Sexy and passionate. I'm sure you will know when the time is right but never rush yourself.

I hope I could help and that this post isn't to late haha!

Good luck with what ever you choose my dear.

Always remember do what feels right and keep loving who you want to love.

Cheers.