Past Curious, stranger than fiction?

[MoxieV]

I'm married to a man. I'm attracted to his ex-wife. She's bi-sexual and I've never been with another woman yet, but I'm quite past the curious stage.
Is this situation a little odd to anyone else? And hell no, neither she or he
know about the strange attraction.

Would love to hear comments.

[dancingdoc2]

Fantasies are just that. Keep it that way.

[learning]

Alot of fantasies have a small chance of becoming reality......this one, in my opinion, should be filed in the "fantasy for ever" section and not be visited whilst in your current relationship!!

[MoxieV]

I wouldn't catagorize this as a fantasy. Its more of a funny situation. It won't happen because the relationship between all three of us has soured. They divorced because she revealed that she was gay. I was just wondering if anyone else has heard of such a situation or had a comment on the strangeness of this. I feel funny talking about it, but for obvious reasons, it's not something I can discuss with anyone I know.

[Brandye]

It is a fantasy and vien the cricumstances, I am with Doc. Action on this fantasy would rapidly become painful for several people.

Accepting that you are convinced you have bi- leanings, you will be amazed how many women are receptive. Many have posted here expressing these feelings. One report I have read indicates that nearly a third of all married women have at least one same sex encounter. I personally know several married women who also have girlfriends.

Act on that desire if you wish but not the person you are focused on. I am actively bi- and find nothing strange about the fantasy. She is a known bi-sexual and you likely feel some reticence about approaching others.

[MoxieV]

I wish I could act on it (with an attractive stranger), but my husband is very possessive about me being with another person, man or woman. It is understandable for him to be this way, but I only wish I could have done something before having married him. It will have to remain a wish, as I don't believe in breaking my promises to him. C'est la vie, right, maybe next in the life.

[stormyxoasis]

belive it our not, i feel the same about my bfs X. ive been with another girl before so its not curiosity. But for me i think its my female attraction+knowing that she was so close to my bf for so long and i want to know what that feels like.

i actually dream about her more than he does lol we joke abt that'

if it is a purely sexual attraction for you then i would be careful with that....hey at least yall have the same taste jk

[LovinItSingle]

Definitely keep this one a fantasy....90% of why I say this is because of the fact that she is your husband's ex-wife. That alone gives her a major upper-hand on you!! The other 10% is that, in my opinion, if you made a commitment to your husband (which you did when you married him) then any relationship, sexual or more, whether it is with another man or a woman, is cheating in my book. I say this is only 10% important because you may not see being with a woman as cheating and your husband might not either. Plus, do you really want to risk making him angry, or even losing him, because of your fantasy??