MMF Threesome? How to go about it?

[TheReject]

Hey everyone,

My girlfriend and I have been together for about a year. Our sex life is great and we love one another and hope to be together for a VERY long time. The deal is, she is perfectally fine with our sex life, but she just wonders what it would be like to be with another guy. (She had only two previous partners, both having their problems; One being crooked and the other [one time] small and coming within a minute.) I don't blame her or resent her about feeling that either. I wonder once in a blue moon about the what if too, usually she forces me to lol.

But my situation is: We've talked about experimenting with a 3some for quite awhile and recently we may have found a person wanting to. The deal is, it's a guy. I said yeah. Basically cause I'm bi-curious (she knows..she is too) and I find this guy extremely attractive. We aren't sure if he's bi or not. But we think he is by his tendancies and the fact him and I played twister and he got hard .

What I ask of you guys is, what's the best way about doing this? I know...let things flow. But how do we go about the guy on guy thing? I don't exactly wanna jump on him w/o knowing if he's interested...and i don't wanna ward him off by asking him straight out...he'd be nervous too, cause I know he's never been with a guy (nor have i). My gf has suggested after we get into things, that she tell us to play. So yeah, if anyone has any comments, please do tell.

Thanks!

[DaraHarder]

I had some experience about 5 years ago. My then girlfriend (M) had been living with me for nearly 2 years, but all that time was also sleeping with another man (S). I really got excited by that, and when I knew she'd been making love with him I got really stimulated. We had discussed a threesome, and wanted it, but didn't know how to get him involved. In the end it happened naturally. We were at his place for dinner, and I came out of the bathroom to find him holding her left breast. He stopped but I told him to carry on since M had such lovely breasts. He looked nervous but I went over and removed her top. She had no bra, so her breasts were exposed to both of us. I could see by how far her nipples were sticking out that M was very excited by what was about to happen. I encouraged him to keep caressing her breast, while I kissed the other one then began sucking her right nipple. M put her hands down between each of our legs and found two hard cocks. We looked at each other, smiled, and knew we wanted more. We moved to the bedroom and removed our clothes. M lay in the middle of her two boyfriends, something she had been dreaming about for years. I looked over and could see that S was as excited as I was. It was the first time I'd been in bed with another man, and found it strangely exciting to see his six inches or more pressed up against M's leg. M knew this was her moment, and she took charge. She held each of our cocks and asked me to caress her pussy while S now sucked each of her breasts alternately. She slowly moved up the bed, on her back, so that she could have our cocks near her very wet pussy. She teased us, first caressing my penis against her pussy, then did the same with S. Each time it became a more intimate caress, to the point where some penetration occurred. Just a quarter of an inch first, for me, then the same for S. Next time half an inch and so on. It was during this phase that our two penises touched. I think M did that deliberately, making sure our two heads connected. As she rubbed them together, I thought, why not just go for it. I reached over and put my hand around his penis. He was startled but didn't resist. I caressed it for a while, then pulled it towards M's pussy and guided it inside. I moved away and let them make love as a couple for 15 minutes or so until he exploded inside her. As he removed his cock from her pussy I put mine in and began thrusting. Too excited, I came with a couple of minutes. After a few minutes rest we decided to have a shower together. Things got pretty steamy again, and we ended up back on the bed for the rest of the night.

Our 3-way relationship continued for a year or so, perhaps once every 2 weeks. While it was predominantly about making love with M, there were times when S and I pleasured each other. It started with our hands, but unexpectedly one day S began to perform oral sex on me. I enjoyed it so much that I went back for more. We never tried any anal sex.

Do I recommend it? Absolutely yes for sexual pleasure. The intensity of the excitement and the orgasms were out of this world. As for the relationship, well that fell apart. So be careful.

[DVDBear]

Well, okay . . . . I've only had gay three-ways so take this for what it's worth, but the single tool I've always found the most useful when dealing with a new player is simply asking in a friendly, non-threatening or non-aggressive way what he thinks he'd like to do. It's funny that communication seems harder than actually being physically intimate with someone, but it's a common problem. He might be nervous about voicing what he finds hot, but he'll probably also sense you're new to this and that might help. Your girlfriend might be able to help in this area as well. I don't know if after you get into it with her that she telling you guys to play is the best approach . . . he might feel a little on the spot in that situation.

Going with the flow is great, but it's nice to at least have an idea of the other person's boundries.

[TheReject]

-Thanks for your comments-

Yeah I think if it happens, we'll ease into it (no pun intended). Like play a little game or something. Strip truth or dare always works, or twister . I'd like it to happen but if it doesn't, ain't the end of the world.

BTW any more comments are welcome!

Thanks

[Rawbob]

Ok...since i don't know how old u are, i'm going to assume you're at least in your 20's.....and because of that, I think you can just be honest.

I mean, if he's a friend and you hang out ..its pretty simple....you buy a bi porno or bi porno magazine and leave it round your house/apt.

Trust me, if he sees it..you'll know....then you can just say, hey <name> have you ever done a MFM 3way? Just take it from there...tell him you've both been wanting to try it but don't want to pick up a stranger......would you ever paly with frends sexually?"

He may answer right away, he may change the subject.....but, put it out there......don't say, "HEY, we want to have sex with you...wanna?" Just put it out there...and go with the flow.

If he says he's afraid of losing a friendship..respect it and let it go!