Watching Gay Men - turn you on?

[mrstinkyhole]

i masterbate quit offten to gay porn. it really gets me turned on. and wat turns me on even more is when i start to finger or put something into my anus. i think its funny though cuz i like women. do u think this is signs of me being gay???

[dancingdoc2]

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Male / Female Sexual Behavior--If I like certain things does this mean I'm Gay?

* X-rated videos are designed to turn you on. Nothing funny 'bout that.
* Playing with or titillating the outside of the anus and inside along the sphincters is a great turn on, especially the closer a person is to triggering their climax. Nothing funny 'bout that.

* What about massaging the Prostate gland when trying to go beyond the point of no return? There is absolutely positively nothing funny 'bout that!

These are all intense turn ons and ways to intensify sex play whether doing it solo or with a partner. Are these signs of being Gay? Please read the article, above.

[sausagemahoney]

do u think this is signs of me being gay???
Dunno, can't help you there. Only you know I would say. I've wrestled with similar questions all my life. I think there is a biological mechanism in your brain that 'tells' you your sexual identity. It tells you which sex you are attracted to, and who you are repulsed by. Straight men are attracted to women and repulsed by men. Gay men are attracted to men and repulsed by women. In as much thought I've put into my own case, my conclusion is that I'm fully attracted to women, but the part of my brain that is supposed to make me repulsed sexually by men doesn't make me repulsed. Men do not serve my needs emotionally, or physically, but I am 100% open to the idea of seeking pleasure in, or seeking pleasure in pleasing, another man in a pinch. Sort of like, I'd rather be with a women, but if I have the itch, nothing is telling me a man can't scratch it. Or it least put some ointment on it.

[rdan05]

Some gay men are not repulsed by women. Their orientation is male but they also like the thought of "trying" a woman. Some gay men you can not get near a woman others are interested but predominantly gay.