Confused about sexuality..

[DVDBear]

Originally Posted by oberon

You know, Doc and DVD, I did consider the "teenage boys get aroused by a passing breeze" idea. However, Q said "I'm sure he feels the same about me..." and so I chose to take him at his word. My main concern was that he'd act on the feelings BEFORE talking about it... which really IS a good way to end up in a fight.

I wasn't slamming your advice, Oberon . . . . hopefully I made that clear in my first sentence. But given his age (sixteen) I did feel it was important to stress that he see the situation as objectively as possible. No small feat for any male at that age!

[oberon]

Originally Posted by Sirene

Having sex with a girl for the first time is harmful?


Botter.

No, having sex with a girl is not harmful. What is harmful is espousing ignorant homophobic opinions. People come here to find help and answers to their questions... not be ridiculed with idiotic remarks.

I'd suggest that anyone who purposely visits the GLBT section of a sex info board just to make inane remarks is the real loser.

[oberon]

Originally Posted by DVDBear

I wasn't slamming your advice, Oberon . . . . hopefully I made that clear in my first sentence. But given his age (sixteen) I did feel it was important to stress that he see the situation as objectively as possible. No small feat for any male at that age!

LOL... I didn't think you were slamming me, DVD. I'm not quite that thin-skinned.

I think it was Doc who said I'd "missed the point"... and I just wanted to point out that I had thought along those lines. However, I wanted to make sure Q didn't just jump the gun and possibly play "reach over" in the middle of the night. Surprises like that can be really unpleasant if the other person isn't interested. By talking about these things beforehand, you have to slow down and think about what you are planning. Sometimes, that's a bucket of cold water... and sometimes it just makes the situation hotter.

Anyway... no problem.

[wonderboy1]

I would ask him what he would say if you asked him to have a gay sex with you. if he says no then it wont ruin your friendship because you wont actualy have sex with him or actualy ask him you will just be asking for an opinion. And if he says yes then you can run off and have your gay sex.

[sburcs]

i want to know what happened! lol