been on my mind that i maybe bi-sexual

[turbo]

well my friend/ sex buddie Mandy told me she is bi-sexual and asked me if I would ever do a threesome and it would turn her on if she seen two guys kissing. Well we also watch anime since were Anime Otaku and I noticed some of the guys on there are really hot.

I've been called names before like fruit or have been asked if I like men. I was at ATB in Chicago for New Years Eve and I was asked out by 4 GUYS! It's freaking strange that so many men love me for some reason.

Am I just having a phase or what? Any thoughts on this?

[SexySass69]

Relax! Just because you are asked out by guys does not mean that you are bi or gay. I have been hit on by quite a few other women (including my fiance's sister) and as flattering as it is, I don't assume that they detect some sort of innate bisexuality in me.

If you do like guys, then it's just that. No one can define what you are, that is solely up to you.

Best wishes.

[DVDBear]

Sexy's right. You're the only one who can define who you are. If you find some attraction toward men and want to experiment, fine. If it's not for you then it ends there, and you can look on it as a "phase". I still believe Kinsey's theory that very very few of us are 100 percent anything our entire lives. Society (and the fear we'll be seen as "gay / bi / straight / whatever") is what keeps the door closed.

[oberon]

To borrow from "The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy".... DON'T PANIC!

As DVD says, it's always up to you what you choose to do. If you have same-sex attractions and want to act on them, then do so. There isn't any "sex police" (at least not yet...) that is going to make you continue if you find it's not for you.

The only suggestion that I can make that isn't just re-iterating previous posts is to be honest with any potential partners. Let them know that you are just testing the water. It might not make a difference as to whether or not someone falls for you, but at least if you decide that being bisexual isn't you then you've given them fair warning.

Take care.

[Browser]

Many people have a bi-curious phase. I know I did, and most of my friends did too. If it's not a phase, think of it as better odds for getting a date