painful

[abcd1234]

hi all i was thinking about anal sex to see what it would feel like i tried dont laugh puting a small tampon up my ass and it was lets say very painfull what shall i do

cheers all

[demonbuttercup]

Well you have to have lube.. LOTS OF LUBE.. and a tampon isn't lubed.
that sounds painful to me too lol.
Tampons can even hurt vaginally a little on a very light flow day.

[abcd1234]

no i did put lube on the tampon maybe i am not doing it right any hint or tip on how to get it up cheers

[Sirene]

Originally Posted by abcd1234

no i did put lube on the tampon maybe i am not doing it right any hint or tip on how to get it up cheers

Were you amazingly horny at the time?
I've found it's not the feeling that's the best bit, but more the act of it.

[dancingdoc2]

1. Use your finger, first
1a. Use plenty of lube on your finger in order to spread it to the anus and sphincters
1b. A finger will do more for your arousal than a tampon
1c. ...providing you begin anal stimulation after becoming very highly aroused
2. Use pressure to insert your finger, never poke, shove, or jab
3. A finger will prepare the way for other objects to follow like a dildo if you want to go further. Home toys can be a candle stick, carrot stick, small cuccumber or English cuccumber, etc. Whatever the dildo is, it should also be well lubricated and follow the finger
4. Anal stimulation can be limited to the outside of the anus and/or to the passageway along the sphincters. All will contibute greatly to a person's arousal and contribute to other forms of caresses going on at the same time. The key is to hold off until the person is very aroused.
5. Guys can enjoy considerably more pleasure when the prostate gland is massaged in addition