can't figure her out...?

[simone7]

hi i'm new to this forum. i'm a bi-curious 19 year old female in college and have always had feelings for women but have never acted on them. i have been approached before but have never had the guts... but i'm in college now and i'm ready to experiment. i have a friend whom i'm attracted to and i know she is straight and has a boyfriend but they aren't really talking now. everytime we are around each other we are constantly teasing and playing around with each other. just the other day we were over a friend's house together and we kept play-fighting and making fun of each other. some of the comments she makes towards me are questionable too but i'm not completely sure if she might slightly see me in "more than friends" way. i need advice on what could possibly be taken as flirting or just playfulness.

thanks=)

[LoneStar692000]

Ask her. If it feels like more, it probably is.

[BitterSweetz125]

I Think U Should Just Ask Her. Cant Hurt.... Can It?

[sera300]

Just see where it goes. If you directly ask you could end a friendship or make it very uneasy. Make more of a gesture by saying something to her...how nice she looks when you are wrestling?

Much depends on how comfortable she is with being approached. I have been approached by women; and thank them for the compliment (as I would a man) and just say politely..."I am not your type, sorry". But it has no ill effects on me after..some are not comfortable though--they get freaky.

[Ducy]

Perhaps push the boundaries a bit...like when your play fighting smack her bum...or maybe just happen to "graze" a breast...this could help maybe break the ice and give you a bit more of an idea as to what she "wants"