curious or bi?

[Angelita21]

hey,

i have a boyfriend, weve been going out like for 3 years now and im very happy with him. But ive always thought that being with another girl would be fun and pleasurable, and i still have that thought. the thing is that i love my boyfriend but i would really like to try it out with another girl....does that make me bi? or does that makes me curious?...help.

[Brandye]

That makes you nothing except normal. Many, nearly all, women deal with this question. Maya Minx has several threads with responses on this very topic. Look them up.

[Browser]

If you simply want to know what it would be like, you're probably curious. That being said, I probably don't know you, and therefore cannot give more than generalized comments. Does it matter if you're bi or merely curious? Probably not. It's all a matter of symantics. I've talked to my friends in the past, and each of them have a slightly different definition of "bisexual."

[HotWife]

Being with another girl is fun and pleasurable! At least, I think so!
I love men and will always need and want that, but I love being with women too. Its different and its fun to experience the softness and beauty of a woman.
It's difficult when you are in a committed relationship though because you don't want to hurt the other person. I wish I'd had more fun while I was single!

[Caitlain]

Until you actually do it, at most, you're "curious." Not that you need to label yourself one way or the other.

[star49gp]

I am "curious" on having a sexual incounter with a female. But again i am married and am scared that one my husband will like that other girl more than he loves me. And he says he doesn't have to be there but agian it can ruin our relationship. I am a chicken don't know if i will ever incounter that experience.

[amby6996]

About most of my friends consider me bi. but i don't i say if you are willing to commit to the other person (girl) then that makes you bi. if you only want to do stuff w/ em' but don't want a relationship then you aren't. just curiousity that hasn't been satisfied yet! I'm the same way I want to do things w/ another girl but afraid my boyfriend would leave me or would be mad or would like the other girl. He says he doesn't mind as long as he gets to be there and that's just the problem i really wouldn't want him to be there. so yeah ... do that kind of stuff when you're single. lol

[maxfan]

i have the same "feeling", i guess you would call it. i just started being "intimate" with my boyfriend, but often fantasize and dream about being with girls. i don't know how this catgorizes me either, but unless your boyfriend is REALLY liberal, he's probably not ok with you cheating on him, with anyone.