Hmmm?

[taylor_action]

I, a woman, was trying to explain to somebody that I really get a jones for a woman but could never see myself dating one (since i'm engaged to a man ) , aka. only physical attraction ? is this unusual?

[Brandye]

Read around. You will find a bit on this. Some studies estimate up to 30% of married women have same sex affairs. What is safer?

I have lived parts of my life as a heterosexual, exclusively. Some parts as a lesbian, exclusively. Now my primary relationship is another bi- woman and we each need a little penis time occasionally. We have very specific rules but we are very happy.

There are two things only a man can do for me: put a real penis in me (physical effect) and leave a little deposit behind (psychological effect). Everything else a woman can do usually better.

[taylor_action]

well..cool? ha. I don't think I'll have the opperturnity to experience what a woman is like, or actively seek it in any case. I'm pretty happy, I just like to look at breasts every once in a while so I guess he can too.

[Brandye]

I guess I misunderstood. Sure it is normal; sexy is sexy. And surely you are aware that we women "dress-up" for other women, not for men. They do not appreciate it as much as we. This does not mean that we are all trying to hook-up but only that we find other women attractive and want to be attractive to other women.

[taylor_action]

well i think my point is somewhere in the middle
I'm attracted to a few women i know, people at work, i'd live to experiment with them
but i won't
because i'm committed.
but I kind of really still get the urge to. I watch only lesbian pornography, because nothing else exights me.
I still enjoy sex with my boyfriend a lot, i love him very much, but i always wonder what it would be like to be with a woman...i've had a few minor experiences but nothing overly significant.
It's a bit of an issue only because it's kind of a strong feeling, i'm equally attracted to men and women in a sexual way but there's nothing to do about it.

[ShadowLynnParker]

Never say never. When you say never something will come about unixpectidly. Women know what other woman wants and likes. Men just fiddle about trying.

[constantlylearning]

Oh, not all men just "fiddle about" do they? Surely not.

[SillyMe*]

Its not unusal honey!!! I have been with a man for years... And I find women amazing... Talk to your partner!!! He might agree on some terms! you never might know.

[Brandye]

Well, be careful about talking to your partner!!!! "Honey, I want to get it on with Mary," is likely to scare the hell out of him. Only you can estimate the degree of risk you are willing to take.

[sexynurse1982]

I basically say the same thing. I could date a woman but have had sexual encounters. I love being with a woman sexually. Woman are more intune to each other!!! Plus I think woman can give me a better organsm!