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Originally Posted by CrackBaby
bisexual women are widely considered hot and liberated. bisexual men don't really exist. they're just gay guys that are maintaining some heterosexualism even though that's not their true sexuality.
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I don't understand why people try to define other people's sexuality. It's a losing proposition. Sexual orientation is on a sliding scale for much of the population . . . . there are people 100% straight, 100% gay and a lot in between. And "in between" can mean anything from an occasional fantasy that's never acted on to a full time bi-sexual life. If a guy experiments with other guys in his early teens, then settles into heterosexual behavior the rest of his life does that, by your definition mean he's just an in the closet gay? Even if he never has another homosexual encounter and doesn't desire one? It doesn't make sense to identify as such. I fully accept that for you and many men the idea of doing
anything with another man has always grossed you out and always will. You identify yourself as straight and I'd agree. But I'd also agree the guy in the situation I mentioned above is straight if he identifies himself as that. Technically he's bi-sexual in a literal sense, but if he tried it, didn't like it and will never go back to it then he's straight. You can't just look at yourself and your buds and say "I define what a straight guy is" for the world at large anymore than I could do that for gay guys. It just ain't that black and white.