Do you think being bi-sexual is wrong

[moose_hd]

1. I don't think there is anything wrong at all with being bisexual.

2. I don't believe that all people have a little bisexual in them. Let me explain:

I do believe that sexuality is more of a scale than a simple straight/gay/bi sort of categorization. I believe that there are many people that are 100% straight or 100% gay, and I also believe that there are many people that are say 95% straight, 5% gay and simply repress or never notice the gay part because some elements of society still put a stigma on homosexuality.

Me, I think I'm about 90% straight and 10% gay. I never really noticed the 10% gay part until one night when I got really drunk and something happened that, upon reflection, really surprised me because I realised I enjoyed it. I might experiment with a man one day just to explore that part of myself, but I don't see myself making a habit of it.

I still see myself only capable of having sexual relationships with women, but I can use the 10% gay part to my advantage because I have a better sense of what makes a man more outwardly attractive. This gives me an advantage over guys who force themselves to think only in heterosexual terms instead of looking objectively at what they think and feel, because I can use it to more effectively attract women.

[Lonewolf*]

Nothing wrong with being bisexual.

I do believe that most people have a some bisexual in them, I also believe in the scale thing that moose_hd was talking about. My teacher at school, I was in the A-HA club (Anti-Homiphobic Alliance) and we were trying to make everyone more away of homosexuality and eventually eliminate all discrimination. Needless to say we might have reduced discrimination, but never eliminated it. This year when they made it they had to change it to GSA (Gay Straight Alliance) because the school board didnt like us having Anti in the name. But a bunch of idiot grade 9 girls joined, all they do is hang out and talk about unrelated things. It was going nowhere, I left.

Anyways, back to on topic. We used that scale. But I dont believe that there are many people that are 100% on either. There may be some, but I think its rare. Even if people wont admit it because they are too afraid to or are in denial. Maybe I'm wrong.

I personally think I'm more 65% straight, 35% gay. I find girls physically attractive, and I wouldnt mind have a sexual or emotional relationship with them. But its not the same. I find guys more attractive. Girls tend to be softer, and I want/need that possible roughness. Plus I could never picture myself marrying a girl, or being with them for long term. I dont know how to explain further as to why my preference is males since both can offer a lot of the same things. I dont feel like I can get that same feeling of being protected that I get right now in the arms of my guy if i was with a woman.

I also could never be with a guy who wasnt open with me about his feelings which a lot of Retrosexual men think is a feminie quality (I dont agree). Therefore I'm quite happy where I am now.

[renabeth]

I am a married bi female. My husband and I have been married for 8 years and he has no problem with me having sex with other girls as long as he knows who and when. We keep no secrets.

[FFF3]

Originally Posted by xXxIrAsLaDyXxX

I want to know if anyone out there think it is physically or mentally wrong to be bi-sexual. I think that everyone has a little in them if they like to admit it or not so put your opinion in and let me know what you think
Thanks

I THINK THAT THEIR IS WRONG WITH WANTING TO BE WITH SOMEONE YOU HAVE FEELING FOR ,SAME SEX OR NOT. IF YOU ARE NOT BI - YOU ARE MISSING 1/2 OF THE WORLD OF GOOD SEX .

[ynghotfck4u]

I hope nothing is wrong with it, because that wouldn't be good for me......

[iamawesum69420]

There is nothing at all wrong with being bisexual. I consider myself bisexual but as it was said earlier I guess it would depend on your definition. I am in a long term relationhip with a man but I have sexual feelings for other women. I don't see myself in a committed relationship with a woman for the rest of my life but I would love to have a carefree relationship with her. The only reason is that, even though I am non-traditional in most ways, the traditional family scene appeals to me, well for the most part but I won't get into all the details of that. Anway, my point is that there is nothing wrong at all with being any sort of sexual orientation as long as you are happy with who you are.

[alwaysrite]

Originally Posted by xXxIrAsLaDyXxX

I want to know if anyone out there think it is physically or mentally wrong to be bi-sexual. I think that everyone has a little in them if they like to admit it or not so put your opinion in and let me know what you think
Thanks

Yes! It is! Not everyone is bisexual and noone should be!

Fear no-one.. 07764499385

[pozzolane]

Originally Posted by alwaysrite

Yes! It is! Not everyone is bisexual and noone should be!

Fear no-one.. 07764499385

Word of advice. Never take the advice of someone who spells a word differently each time they spell it. What the hell is going on here in the last couple of days??

If you come here to spout lies and be a bigot then go shove needles down your pee hole!

To answer the question on whether on not it is ok to be bi-sexual, the answer is yes. Yes it is ok. Infact, according to "The Joy Of Sex" circa 1970's, it is by nature that each and every one of us is bi-sexual, in that we are all capable of becoming aroused by a member of the same sex.

[Marci G.]

If you're not bisexual, you're missing half the fun.....

[andrewjas]

i dont think anything is wrong with it. there are a few things i believe about being gay or bi. i think gay people are born that way, and there is nothing you can do about it. but i think being bi is something that is learned and/or influenced. i believe at some point in a persons life rather it be childhood or later that sexuality can be influenced. an example would be my case, when i was around 14 me and my best friend would masterbate together but we would never watch each other or see each others dicks, but gradually we would start to expeiriment a little, the farthest we went was oral. but before we started all that stuff i never even though about being with guys. but now i have many interest in guys, but women are what im more into