does this make me a lez?

[lil_girl_224]

k so me and some of my firends...ill change thier names...ill call them jess...Lisa...and two guyz and ill change thier names to...well call them josh and chad...k so jess and josh are dating...k so anyway...it was me and them 4 and we were at chads house...we were in his room and we came up with the idea to just start making out...(dont ask how it came up) and so chad and lisa start making out so me jess and josh are all like hey lets all three of us makeout...so like me and jess start making out! it was weird cuz shes my best friend but still it was pretty good and so josh is like kissing our necks and stuff then we just all switched and i ended up making out with ALL of them and ya even the girls...alot...like it was just like kissing a guy...but im afraid if people find out what we did it will make them think of me as a lez so ya...does it make me one?

[UHCougar05]

my girlfriend has told me that she has done things with girls before....i'm guessing it's kinda natural to experiment like that...for girls. she's as straight as someone can be, and she has told me she learned how to do stuff from girls...so i dont' think so....now if you were attracted to other girls, then you would be a lez.

[oberon]

Okay, first, the term "lez" is slightly offensive. *The correct term is "lesbian". *Or if that's just too much to type, then "gay".

Second, from the post, I'd say you are fairly young. *As has been stated, it's perfectly normal for teens to experiment. *Being gay is about who you are attracted to... not necessarily who you have sex with. *I COULD have sex with a woman (and have), but I'd still be gay. *

Here's the way I break it down for myself:

Straight: *ONLY has sex and falls in love with the opposite sex*.

Gay: ONLY has sex and falls in love with the same sex*.

Bisexual: *may have sex AND/OR fall in love with both sexes.

*experimentation doesn't count

If you are sexually and romantically interested in guys, you could still be sexually interested in women and be bisexual. *Or you could be sexually and romantically interested in both and be bisexual.

Whatever the situation, you should know that there isn't anything wrong with being any of these things. *Take your time and figure out what works for you and be happy.

Take care.

[Brandye]

There are precious little sources of good data on woman-woman sexual relationships. I have seen studies from private schools indicating more than half the women did, at least occasionally, make love with one another. I have seen more recent data that suggest one out of three married women, at some point, have a sexual relationship with a woman friend.

It is not uncommon and this does not mean you are lesbian. It means you are curious. Some of us, know as bisexuals, enjoy sex with men and with other women. The emphasis may shift over life.

As a teen my best girlfirend and I were inseparable. We started explaining what we wished our boyfriends would do and ended up doing for each other. We are both still bi-.

[Amy]

unless youre physically attracted to girls and only girls youre not a lesbian. for example, i know im straight but me and my friend kissed the other day to put these guys off that were stalking us. didnt work though. lol. you pretty much know if youre a lesbian

[lil_girl_224]

thanx people!!! all of you really helped...and sorry to oberon i didnt mean to offend...but i feel alot better...luv yall!!!

[oberon]

Glad to help. And you didn't really offend me... I didn't think you meant anything negative. I just thought you might want to know for future reference.

Take care.

[GroovyGuy]

I agree. I know a girl who made out with one of her girlfriends but it didn't anything....just girls gone wild!!!1

[TommyBoy]

Hawtt!

I think it's good to experiment

[Doodlebug]

No, from what I understand, experimentation is pretty normal amongst teens though I admit that I never experimented with other females and I consider myself to be a bisexual.