His is so much bigger than mine!

[mark01nj]

I am a single, 20 year old bi-sexual male who just recently had my very first man-to-man sexual experience. *Unfortunately it has left me with a bit of confidence issue. *When the underwear came off I was a bit taken back by how much bigger his penis was than mine. *I always knew that mine was a bit on the small size (about 4.5 inches when erect) but actually seeing and holding this guy's penis suddenly made me realize just how small mine is. I know there are other postings on here where people will talk about how size doesn't matter and whatnot, but I find that I am embarrased to be with this guy again knowing that his equipment is so much more impressive than mine. Have any other gay or bi guys out there ever had a partner who was either much bigger or smaller than you? Was it ever an issue in your relationship?

[Jracer]

I do remember some of my locker room encounters in middle school and recall one boy who was an honest 8" chubbed, to say the least I did get my attention being I was maybe half that with an optimistic ruler.

To some its considered a "status symbol" however its also folklore that the man who drives a Corvette has a smaller than average penis... Don't ask where this came from but it was explained to me when I asked why the 'vette was called a "phallusmobile"

Now to the present and my boyfriend who is almost 2" longer than I am I can honestly say it's had no effect on our relationship that we've had since jr. high. I knew he was going to be big back then so I just got used to it and decided it was nothing to.... er... complain about.

JR

[oberon]

Hi Mark,

Don't worry about it. *Yes, some guys are large. *So what? *It's not an issue unless someone makes it one. *Personally, I've never been with anyone who did... and let's just say I have A LOT more experience than you. *I'm not huge *(about 7-7 1/2) and I've been with guys who are much larger and with guys who are much smaller. *As the ladies in "Witches of Eastwick" say, "As long as it works, it's in." *lol * It's much more important what kind of lover you are than how big your equipment is. *

Now, I'm not saying that someone couldn't make this an issue. *Might someone dislike you because your dick is too small (or too big, for that matter)? *Of course. *But then, some people might dislike you because you have blonde hair or green eyes. *Just move on to the next person and don't let it bother you.

Just have fun. *

Take care.

[hotmarriedlady]

Hey dude, Just bend over and relax................ I shared a college dorm with a bisexual guy who was from Jamaica and we got down and dirty one night, (..... edited by moderator ..... )* * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * Steve

[oberon]

Ah... now I remember. The would be porn writer....

[thetease13]

Yup, the porn writer.
I like how they're a guy in this post but all the other posts they were a girl with 50 different girlfriends that was married to a guy.

[lilly2279]

A hot married lady named steve

Impressive they were able to take such a huge penis in their butt so quickly, with lube of course. I feel so inferior for having to work up to that. ha ha ha!

Ah, but isn't that what fantasies and porn are made of? lol

[Rawbob]

Penis size will always be a concern - no matter if you're bi,str8 or gay.

Bottom line? (pun intended):
1) DId you have a good time?
2) Did he seem concerned or upset or lose his hardon when he saw your penis?
3) Overall, did u have a good time with him? Did he indicate he wanted to see you again?

The answers to those questions are more important that a tape-measure of your dick!

I'm lucky, i'm pretty well hung, but i have played iwth guys bigger and smaller than me.....and really, its a matter of how good he is overall then h ow long is cock is or isn't!

From a sexual aspect, taking a 9" cock in your ass is something one has to take care with in any situation. Many of us enjoy avg. sized guys when it comes to anal....but it's going to be different with every lover you meet and play with !

[James2007]

I guess his equipment was like a Nuke... Urs Was a roadside bomb

[shaved bi]

I have had anal sex with guys that were larger. I let them work my hole a while longer so that it would open wider.