Ever wanted to ask a gay person a question..

[rosebanks]

i have a question,
like straight girls can look at another girl and think Hmm, your fit (basicaly! lols)
do gay men do the same kind of thing about women i mean? x

[DVDBear]

If I understand your question can we look at a woman and judge if she's "hot"? :-) Sure! Doesn't mean we want to jump in the sack with her, but we can appreciate beauty. Of course, just like straight guys beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I had a crush on Dianna Rigg from The Avengers when I was a kid (yes, I'm that old!) . . . . but maybe it was the leather jumpsuit. lol On the other hand I find Paris Hilton just skanky.

[rosebanks]

Originally Posted by DVDBear

If I understand your question can we look at a woman and judge if she's "hot"? :-) Sure! Doesn't mean we want to jump in the sack with her, but we can appreciate beauty. Of course, just like straight guys beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I had a crush on Dianna Rigg from The Avengers when I was a kid (yes, I'm that old!) . . . . but maybe it was the leather jumpsuit. lol On the other hand I find Paris Hilton just skanky.

i don't think there is many that DONT find paris hilton skanky lol!
if there are, i don't think ive yet come across them

thanks for answering my question

[jaketanner]

this guy says he is straight but he also lists his sexual encounters with a number of men. so what is he? a closeted gay, a bisexual in denial, just confused? I mean it is really none of my business what he is but thought since we are in a interesting discussion might as well talk about it.

http://sexytenga.wordpress.com/m2m-encounters/

CONFESSION: to be honest, i see myself as a straight men but his experiences/ stories do excite me sexually. cant explain it - hope someone can shed some light on this...

JT

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[jamman21]

what is the best way for a first time anal stimulation by yourself

[dancingdoc2]

Welcome to the SI101 Board and its Forums. I hope you enjoy participating. Please begin by reading the FAQs, the Posting Guidelines section, and especially the Index, all found at the top of the main screen. The Index contains lots of links to helpful informative and how-to articles. The one you should read, first, is:

"Playing Ball" and How To Tips for Prostate Massage

This is also an excellent tutorial for people interested in and concerned about the how-to of Anal stimulation as well as play.

There is a section in the article that explains that the sensitive nerve endings around the outside of the anus and just inside along the passageway become highly reactive once a person has become very turned on. You can stimulate the anus beforehand and while it feels good to do so, the real intense contributions begins after you have become very highly aroused.

You do what feels good in the moment. You can use a dry finger or a wet finger for completely different sensations. Try tapping the anus around the opening and also try rubbing. If and when you are ready for finger penetration, use a well lubricated finger as explained and proceed slowly using pressure.

I hope this is of help. Got questions?

[DVDBear]

Originally Posted by jamman21

what is the best way for a first time anal stimulation by yourself

There's plenty of posts here on anal stimulation, and lots of ways to do it. But to the novice goes the advice "Safety first" -

Never use anything that isn't rounded or blunt. This includes your fingers if you have long fingernails.

Make sure if you're using an object it can't get lost up there. Flared base is essential. You'd be surprised how things can get "sucked up" if you don't have a hold!

Anything not sterile either use rubber gloves or condoms.

And never "force". Slow and sure. If it's hurting STOP.

Have fun.

[LiL_TrUbLe]

I have a question I read this thread and I don’t think it was asked unless I missed it if so am sorry .

Ok my question is how do you approach guy ? I mean a straight guy may seen a cute girl at the mall and start talking to her and ask her out like nothing. How do you know if the guy is gay as well? Can he be bi?
Do you just see someone that you are attracted to and go talk to them?

I have lesbian and gay friends and they tell me that they just know when some one is gay. Is that true? They joke and say something like my gay radar tells me he or she is gay or lesbian.

I had friends that have been approached by a gay guy who asked them out but as soon as they say sorry am not gay its like nothing they both respect each other u know.


Thank you for allowing us to ask questions that we might not be to shy to ask a gay guy.

[DVDBear]

That's a good question, and my answer would be carefully. It depends a lot on the situation, the surroundings and other factors. I wouldn't consider my "gaydar" particularly good, so most of the time I'd restrict myself to places where it was obvious (gay bars, ect.) or if someone was obviously soliciting me. But I'd say you pursue it very slowly, non-sexually, just strike up a conversation and keep it general but look for indications that there might be interest for more. If there is, go from there. But don't be pushy or aggressive . . . . if you get any signs of disinterest, drop it.

[butthead]

Wow thank guys this was pretty educational.