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Old 11-05-2007, 01:31 PM
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Ok...and another...if a straight guy were to find an attraction to gay porn or to "she-male "porn", would you, as a gay guy, consider that a suspicious interest????...In terms of him being bi, bi-curious or gay??
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Old 11-05-2007, 01:59 PM
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As to gay porn, regular guy-on-guy stuff, perhaps. I mean, if he looks at it REGULARLY. A curious peek a couple of times, no. I've played with straight guys who like to be blown by another man, so it's not unlikely they might want to see that now and then. The she-male stuff, I dunno . . . . to me, being a gay guy means you're attracted to MEN and like masculinity, not women with a penis. I know some men fantasize about she-male stuff . . . . . a friend of mine who works in an adult video / toy store says it's actually the second most popular catagory for rentals. So I don't know what to tell you about that. Most likely it's just the exotica of it. Really, I think if a guy watches a lot of either of these things it shows he has more than a little interest in male genitalia, which at least makes him suspect for having bi-tendencies.

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I'm just confused...

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I'm not sure what to think or feel....

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Well, does he watch a lot of gay and she male porn? If so, did you just find out or did he tell you? And if he told you what does he say about it?
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He just let me in on this little secret just recently....he says HE was aware of this for about the past 8 years....now, I consider myself to be very liberal sexually...but I don't know how to handle this....he says this is a compulsion of his and he can not help it....and he can not stop....I am helpless.

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Old 11-05-2007, 05:25 PM
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Does he consider himself bi-sexual or ever acted on it, or does he say it's just a fantasy? Admittedly it's not a good sign if he's saying it's a "compulsion and he can't stop", but if he never does anything about it what difference does it make? I understand how you'd want to work this out completely before getting married, though. As uncomfortable as it might be really talk this through with him until you're satisfied.
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Old 11-05-2007, 11:57 PM
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We are working things out as we go...slowly, but surely. Thanks DVD Bear
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I'm a straight guy, but I occasionally watch she-male porn. I think its just the novelty of it. It only interests me if the person has a very feminine face and body (except for genitalia of course). Any hint of masculinity and I lose interest. Its really just curiosity value for me. I have no interest in gay porn, by the way.
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Old 11-08-2007, 07:59 PM
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You obviously did not take the time to read the entire contents of this thread!
My fiance is a straight man and he likes to watch she-male porn. We went to a therapist and she said 90% of the consumers for she-male pornography are straight males.
An answer to your question...it is NOT unusual and it is NOT weird...but MAKE SURE YOUR SIGNIFICANT OTHER KNOWS ABOUT IT!!! Otherwise, it may come as a shock to them.

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