male giving oral sex to male

[Danny]

Iam a male and im 17 years old..... i gave an oral sex to a male and he is 25 years old many times
and i dont wanna do it again .. i dont wanna be a gay and im fighting it.... how can i stop being one????

[Qguy]

Straight guys dont give other guys head.

[cool macs]

LOL!

funny, but untrue... Its ok to experiment, just remember to be safe...

[Web]

Well, I can't say your gay, because you never stated if you like women or not....

but I would say that if you do enjoy women as well... you're atleast bi-curious.

[andyaz]

Well, I certainly can't say for sure, but it sounds to me like you're probably gay and resisting it. I'm 30 years older than you, but I'm all too familiar with that situation, so maybe you can get something out of my experience.

From the first day of puberty I knew that boys made my dick hard and girls didn't, which I also knew was a pretty strong clue that I was gay. Of course, I didn't want to be, and I never gave in to those desires becuz I was convinced that I could force myself to change. I got married and even fathered twin daughters, but I was still as queer as ever. In order to have sex with my wife, I always had to fantasize about guys. Altho I still wanted to be str8, I was miserable living the lie of only pretending to be, and by the time I realized that marriage had been a big mistake, I felt obligated to stay for the sake of the kids.

Well, other problems developed that made my wife think I didn't need to feel obligated, and even tho I resisted, she divorced my sorry ass anyway. That put me right back where I'd made a wrong turn 20 years earlier and still as a gay virgin, so I decided to take a chance and see what being queer was like. The sex was as fabulous as I'd expected, but I discovered that being a homo involves much more than that, and some of it actually felt just as good or better. There were emotions and a sense of bonding that I couldn't have expected, becuz it was all new to me. I know this'll sound sappy, but the feeling of finally being who and where I was supposed to be made me so euphoric that I *was* 16 again.

Anyway, it didn't take long for me to decide to "come out", which wasn't easy, but in a totally different way than I expected. All those years, I'd been scared to death that if one person discovered my secret, the whole world would soon know, but as it turned out, I had to tell everyone individually, cuz no one even cared enough to tell anyone else.

I don't want you to think I'm trying to talk you into being gay if you're not, that's not possible, anyway. But if you are gay, I really hope you won't try to talk yourself into being str8, cuz that can't be done either. Of course, being bi-sexual is also possible, but you're not required to have any kind of label, so you should just go with what feels right to you, and not worry about what other people might think. You're not living your life for them, and besides, they're really not paying much attention to you anyway, they're too busy with their own lives.

Sorry, I'm sure that's more than you wanted to know, but if there's anything you'd like to ask, feel free to email me.


andy

andyaz4@cox.net

[atomic]

the question is: do you feel attracted to me? YES: then chances are you're bi-curious/bi-sexual/gay. Are you EXCLUSIVELY attracted to men: then the chances of you being gay are good. You cannot stop yourself from being gay any more than you can stop yourself being of a different race. It's nature and it's there to stay. Rather than wanting to stop it, concentrate on the positive side of things rather than whatever you've been told that is negative. Being gay is slowly becoming more socially acceptable (took the world long enough....) and others are quite willing to share info/life story's etc. so read up a bit on teenage homosexuality or join an online chat forum for gay teens. Ask questions, to others and to yourself, and celebrate life-gay or straight or whatever!! Good luck and keep smiling

[andyaz]

I agree entirely with everything that atomic said, but I'd like to add something to one of his comments.

> Being gay is slowly becoming more socially acceptable
> (took the world long enough....)

That's very true in "modern" times, but throughout history and between cultures, it's varied everywhere from zero tolerance to total acceptance. To me, that alone proves society's view to be mere opinion, not necessarily any reflection of the truth that a person's (homo/hetero) sexuality isn't chosen or changeable. *

[atomic]

apologies andyaz, and this he's actually a she...:)

[andyaz]

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apologies andyaz, and this he's actually a she...:)

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Everything you said was spot on, and I was only pointing out a technicality, so I can't imagine why you're apologizing, especially since it wasn't you, nobody saw you do it, and I can't prove anything. :- )

Actually, I could apologize to you for assuming you were male strictly from your gender neutral nick, but I won't, cuz your typo in &quot;Are you attracted to me?&quot; provides a perfect excuse to avoid having to admit it. :-')

(The 'postrophe in the middle of that smile thing is a cheek bump caused by tongue being firmly planted there, which is essentially worthless since no one else ever knows what it means, but being a personal invention, I'm somewhat proud of it anyway, and loathe to give it up.) :- )

[guycr]

giving blow jobs to guys means you are gay