male giving oral sex to male

[Rawbob]

Wow, this topic has been on here for over a year-and-a-half!

I feel so much for the guy that started this post last year. I spend alot of time counseling young men about homosexuality. You can almost feel the anxiety in his initial post. And, to all those who say being gay is a decision, read that young man's post! Clearly, he feels something inside him that drew him to engage in homosexual activity, but he's caught in the dilemna of what society says about being gay!

Like one of the other members, I too denied my homosexuality for many years, got married, got all religious, had a child, a house, dog, cat the whole ball of wax - what society says is the typical "Leave It To Beaver" household.

But, like the other member, there was alwasy something deep inside that was eating away! My wife did everything she could to appease my sexual desires - from swinging, to internet sex to even letting me spend a week with 2 gay men to "cure" me of my homophobia.

Long story short, we divorced and i met and then married my partner of nearly 8 years!

I'm not sure if the young man who posted his question is still a member, but if you are, PLEASE feel free to email me at my yahoo address! I'd be glad to chat with u!

[eliza]

oh man! i dun really know whata say. but the fact is U R behaving like one. plz stop that immediately! it's sinful...look for anotha gal and do that with her, not a guy!

[demonbuttercup]

geez eliza
give us a break!!!

[mike]

Originally Posted by [b

Quote[/b] (Danny @ Mar. 19 2002,11:56)]Iam a male and im 17 years old..... i gave an oral sex to a male and he is 25 years old many times
and i dont wanna do it again .. i dont wanna be a gay and im fighting it.... how can i stop being one?

This begs the question-

If you are doing this of your own free will: You don't want to be gay but you are giving oral sex to a man... why? If you don't want to be gay then why did you do it in the first place?

If you are being forced to do it: Why haven't you talked to the police yet?

[cool macs]

For craps sake ELIZA.... the moral of the story goes like this:

DROP THE LABELS and DROP YOUR BIASED VIEWS

It is not sinful, and it is not wrong. To each their own!!!!

Whether I am into something, or not, I do not judge people for trying it, as long as they aren't hurting others in the process.

[deroxor]

Originally Posted by [b

Quote[/b] (eliza @ Oct. 22 2003,06:03)]oh man! i dun really know whata say. but the fact is U R behaving like one. plz stop that immediately! it's sinful...look for anotha gal and do that with her, not a guy!

dont be harsh on the guy. he is just confused and needs awsers. dont be flaming him for nothin.

[mike]

Originally Posted by [b

Quote[/b] (cool macs @ Oct. 26 2003,23:29)]DROP THE LABELS and DROP YOUR BIASED VIEWS
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To each their own!!!!

Feeling a bit contradictory?

[cool macs]

I don't see any contradiction....

[mike]

"To each their own" means that they can have labels and biased views if they so desire. So do you want them to drop the "labels and biased views" or do you want them to believe in their own thing?

[cool macs]

i see where you are coming from... Not sure how to correct what I was trying to say... Just angered by these accusations of the dude being sinful and wrong.... I'm not religious, though my dislike of religious people sometimes makes me as bad as I believe they are....

Freedom of speach is an important thing, just some people seem to use it to say the MOST IGNORANT things... Let people do their own thing as long as they aren't hurting others.... If you want to comment on it, do it constructively.

Eliza's comments are hurtful, and non constructive, as a result, I beleive she should keep her mouth shut on the topic until she develops a stronger mind... Why is it most religious people HATE on so much, when the object of their worship is PEACE??? Perhaps the books are out of date, and people should let the curses die...