How long does it take most of you girls to hit orgasm?
I mean, with reasonably awesome stimulation, of course.
I shall loiter around, waiting for a response on this grossly under-visited board. 
Wed, 06/01/2005 - 01:55
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Hmmm, how long?
what i do it, i get up close and start kissin her on the jaw line and all away round.
then i tease her for a kiss then i get b/hind her and move my hands up and down her body still kissin her.
then i slide my hand to her legs and start movin slowly to the innewr thigh and start movin close to the (|) then i rub my midddle finger along her pussy and us a little pressure then i slide my hand up to her belly then slide it down under her pantys.
i start by rubbin the out side and tappin my fingers on the skin. then i pull my hand out and look in2 her eyes then lick my finger then go back down.
i do this for about 10-20 mins then i start to use my Cock. and my good its the best sex ever.
Its the best. you gotta please them 1st thou. that way they no u don't wanna just go donw and do it and thats it. take it slow my her enjoy it. if u want to feel good let her to.
thats my way of doing it thou
I think the best idea is a lot of foreplay and kissing/touching before giving any oral or getting to her pussy. This should make her just explode once you get down there finally. Same thing with us, girls. So just lay on a bed playing with each other for about 20 minutes at least, ignoring the will to give oral to each other, and finally give in.
Haha, you're a bright one...
I decided to change usernames to something that people I know don't already associate with me...
I don't want my buddies bugging girls I've been with if they happen upon this site.
This kid had a GIANT spongebob in chem class today. I wanted to bunsen-burn it.
lol I like spongebob
yasunde is going undercover lol
I see your "secret code" lol
he he. I'm sure you haven't outgrown cartoon characters! My boyfriend is 37 and falls asleep watching cartoons a lot of nights. lol.
I didn't even like cartoons as a kid - always wanted to watch shows that had other kids in it. But I do like spongebob. Does that count. lol.
Okay, I'll stop hijacking the thread now. he he.
[QUOTE=Quote (lilly2279 @ June 06 2005,15:56)]Ack. What is gir? What is a noob? I'm lost with that lingo. lol.[/QUOTE]
lol
its ok lilly
n00b as in newbie
and Gir is my avatar.
Its from the cartoon invader zim.
Yea I know I should have already outgrown cartoons, lol.
Ack. What is gir? What is a noob? I'm lost with that lingo. lol.
And my orgasms range in time as well. Like ALL women and ALL men. lol. Whether I'm being stimulated by a guy, by myself or my toy. The times vary with all those things. There can be lots of different reasons why we, as women, let ourselves be overtaken by the great 'O'. lol.
Sometimes I'm just horney as heck and want to have an orgasm. I may orgasm in just a minute or too. If I'm having anal, I orgasm in like half a minute!! I wonder if it's just because that's a bit naughty? lol. I don't know? Sometimes just thinking about something can make me cum faster or if I am having a hang up about something or thinking about how I'm gonna pay my crazy high electric bill it can take me much longer.
(GREAT post Brandye!!! I loved it!)
I guess its time for another round of apologies...
SORRY for making incorrect assumptions and overestimating my own value. SORRY for belittling your beauteous problem. SORRY for paying you less, and SORRY for expecting you to do my laundry.
Please don't fault me entirely for my ignorance, and please keep in mind that the fact that I've recognized my ignorance is the reason I'm here.
I suppose I phrase things like that because my insatiable ego just can't stand the thought of my part in the scene being any less than pivotal.
I appreciate the responses.
And no... the Gir needs a bit of swirly action before I'd consider it hypnotic.
[QUOTE=Quote (yasunde @ June 01 2005,20:41)]I'm sure in standard buttercup fashion you'll link me to an old thread... But I'm lazy.
The eyes of the Gir peer deep into my soul. [=.=][/QUOTE]
LOL
Am I THAT predictable?
Does the Gir hypnotize you?? lol
Well I would have linked you but I think Brandye set the record straight
And, to your original question, I have come in thirty seconds of masturbation and not made it in thirty minutes. I do not know why the difference.
With a man, I have come in a minute or so (of oral or digital stimulation) and not made it all night. In my whole life I have had orgasm in response to penile thrusting alone very few times.
OK, now you have irritated the hell out of me. Old timers have heard this before.
You guys who try to take responsibility for a woman's orgasm have a highly exaggerated view of what men do for women. You do not get me off or give me an orgasm as a woman. We are responsible for our own orgasms. And other sexual satisfaction. Sexual response is complicated enough without our having to satisfy any guy abusing our clitoris or pounding at our pudenda by having an orgasm for him to brag about.
We can heighten one another's (men and women) response in a considerate, romantic interlude. We women do not have orgasms to satisfy you; we have them to satisfy us. And female response varies dramatically from woman to woman and from time to time. I have never squirted into a vagina because I do not have a penis to squirt with. I do not know exactly how a man's orgasm feels and you do not know how ours feel. Hell, some women do not even know.
Quit the chauvinistic crap about "giving" us anything and simply enjoyed getting laid. In the process, we can all be happy. Accept that women do not need to have orgasms to feel satisfied. Accept that some of our orgasms may be earth shaking (damned few) and some are just little flutters. That is our beauty, or problem as you would have us believe, not yours.
How bothered do you female types get when someone doesn't/can't get you off? I'm sure in standard buttercup fashion you'll link me to an old thread... But I'm lazy.
The girl is just a good friend of mine. She is/was just new to that KIND of encounter.
I tend to not have girlfriends, and just do... things... with my friends. Is that such a bad thing as some people may say?
The eyes of the Gir peer deep into my soul. [=.=]
I had no idea at the time how new to it she was. She stopped me and said "I'm not sure if this is getting anywhere." So I decided not to push it, I'm an understanding guy. I suppose I just didn't CORRECTLY understand at the time.
I also think she was a little uncomfortable about it... Who knows.
Its all in the head, right?
No offense just letting ya know ;)
Ok so she waited 2 minutes and after that she was done?
That was all the time allowed?
Well no wonder she's never orgasmed.
I would let her know that it's gonna take a little longer than that.
The times I've actually done it under 2 min is when Im alone and w/ my vibe, lol.
If its oral or intercourse it usually takes me like 7+ minutes maybe.
In respondance to JR, I'd say that I've had ranging from 3 minutes ish to never as well... and the never ones make me so sad! Especially if its a first with that person.
And sorry buttercup if I offended your board. I rather like it, so I didn't mean any transgression.
I was just wondering, because this girl I was with kindof stopped me after 2 minutes... I pulled a WTF face, and she said she had never grabbed the O. Also shes a bit of a noob.
I apologize for using the term noob.
First off this board is fairly active
anyhoo I dont think you can answer that question.
I vary from under 2 minutes to 30 minutes to never reaching it.
Just all depends on how I am that particular day.
honestly it all depends. there have been sometimes where i was just fingering her for a minute or two and she exploided...and sometimes i'll be down there for 5-10 min sometimes more...full go..hands tounge...
i guess it depends on how aroused she is..last time shes had ones..and so on.
Yeah if you aren't comfortable w/ the person and/or situation, its less likely going to happen.
There have been times when I was turned on and enjoying myself but after 10 minutes I could tell IT wasn't going to happen. Thats ok tho
Spongebob is the devil.
n00b.
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