as i mentioned before i am seeing someone who is experienced and lil older. I am new at everything and he is taking his time with me when we are together.( did have sex yet ) but when we are not he tells me everything he wants to do and he shares all his private thoughts with me. Is that normal? he asks me too and i am bit too shy about it sometimes. I mean we just starting something and is that normal to tell a girl ur private business even it involves her?
Mon, 01/08/2007 - 18:44
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hm is it normall
Youthful exuberence would seem to be getting in the way of pragmatism.
Accurate or not, he probably feels more comfortable in your new relationship than you do at this point. Sharing is a good thing when the timing is appropriate. All too often women complain that guys never talks to them or share what has happened that day or what is going on or has gone on in their life in the past. So on the one hand this is not bad, yet on the other, he may be a bit too eager or premature at this stage. If you believe this is the case, perhaps sitting him down and telling him that you are uncomfortable with knowing so much information so soon and ask if he would consider prioritizing what he has to say, and, finding out whether you really need to know something or want to at this point.
no no i love the fact that he tells me his past. I am saying he tells me his dirty thoughts about me. When he masturbates and all that.
If you aren't comfortable about him telling you those things, kindly tell him that. If the guy really does like you, he will respect your wishes.
You're having sex with him and yet are uncomfortable that he thinks sexual thoughts about you? That's not good. You need to loosen up.
If you aren't comfortable, you should tell him so.
I don't know about anybody else, but I think is is very HOT when a man tells you what he wants to do to you. It shows that he is obviously thinking of you at thetime and probably when you are not with him.