:confused: Ok so Me and my girl have sex quite often im about 7.5 inches in length and everytime we have sex if i go in deep im always hitting this thing at the top and she freaks about it it feels like my dick is hitting a barrier what is this?
Mon, 02/19/2007 - 06:48
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Hitting something inside her ... what the hell!!!!!!!!!!
"this is the end"
~the doors~
so her vagina is only as long as my penis is? lol?
well theres alot going on mate.
there are vaginal walls and there is a cervix and its an area that is tightly tucked right under the pelvis bone for protection.
so it could be and probably is a bit longer, that does not mean there is enough space through out the entire area to accommodate your penis in that womens vagina.
Is she a smaller frame women.
i dont know, i might be under studied on this topic. its been a while since i been in health class and im below average in penis size.
but im pretty sure im correct on this. if not im sure someone will correct me soon
The vagina will expand to accommodate most every penis.
You are probably bumping up against the Cervix.
If your penis is less than 4.25" then you are below average. If it is longer, then you are well within the "range" of what is considered "normal".
Im not asking if i have a normal sized dick im just saying its kind of weird yea she is small framed stands about 5'2 or so but still.........i always hit it and she tenses up and hates it
Of course she hates it! It hurts when you go ramming your penis into her cervix OUCH! like some bull in a china shop! Go below the cervix next time! Also try rubbing her G-Spot with the head of your penis for a change.
Jeez! Talk about unskilled labor! Hammering away at the little femme like that. Someone smack him!
The more a woman is turned on... the more her vagina will expand.
My b/f is about your size... and I am usually ok in most positions.. only a few make him to "too" deep... like missionary but w/ my legs over his shoulders... that usually ends up hurting.
How does she do on top?
am i the only one here who like's it deep? it feels better to me.
I like it deep, but I'm on the other end, lol. Although it does sound like this guy's a little insensitive, I'd say slow down and let her expand sheesh. I spend at least a half hour before entry just warming up my partners, depending on time, I may go it longer.
Meep, it does sound like the cervix! Trust me mate, that really hurts. Be more gentle with her, don't force it in. She's not made of rubber you know. How long do you spend on foreplay? Getting your partner warmed up is essential for a good sexual experience. Try some very light massage between her legs, but don't just run straight for the hills and stick your fingers in there, as if she's not ready that will also hurt. Kiss, caress, ask her what she wants, and talk to each other so she relaxes. Be prepared for it to take a long time, in a new relationship it should, otherwise sex will continue to be unpleasant for her and she'll avoid it. In fact you'll probably find that the more time you take the more fun you'll have. Also, as you get to know each others' bodies more, remember, you don't always have to go the whole nine yards. Sometimes touching and kissing is more than enough.
Be more gentle with her and look at her face when you do have sex. YOU should know within seconds if she's enjoying it or not. If you can see she's not but doesn't say anything then stop right away. She may not speak up because she doesn't want to hurt your feelings. She may feel guilty, so you make sure you reassure her and give her a hug. Your girlfriend is very precious and dserves to be treated with respect. If you slow things down and treat sex as a romantic expression of your feelings for each other instead of a self-centresd activity you will have much healthier relationship.
My only suggestion is try diff positions
does body frame have any relation to how big a penis a girl can take comfortably ?
[COLOR="Red"> Body frame probably doesnt directly dictate how much a girl can take. I would think, and correct me if I'm wrong because i know there are MANY professionals on this forum, that it would depend on the size of her pelvis. As in, if she has child bearing hips... iunno, FACTS PLEASE! :) Also, you might wanna try not having intercourse so directly so that your penis is going so deep and hurting her. Try holding yourself above her in a pushup position with your hips higher up in relative position to hers. This makes your penis enter her at an oblique angle and should prevent you hitting her cervix or causing discomfort with thrusts that go "DOWN" instead of "IN". Also, try not going ALL the way inside of her, it is not necessary, short controlled thrusts, perhaps going in 5 inches at the most, try aiming for her G-spot.[/COLOR]