Stupid question but I'm curious.. Everytime I have sex and he cums in me it always just comes back out, is this normal or is it suppose to stay inside?
Fri, 04/08/2011 - 11:54
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his seman always pours out of me?
This is what makes the "wetspot." He deposits nearly a tablespoon in you with up to 400 million sperm swimming in it. It is delivered in a glob but immediately begins to liquify to allow the sperm to swim up into your uterus. About half this liquid drains out of you and about half is absorbed through the vaginal walls. The sperm swim throughout your genito-urinary system and climb into every orifice they find. With so many, a little wastage does not makes much difference. Your urine sample the next morning would likely have sperm in it and the sheets have a high sperm count!
And why aren't you two having safe sex???
Condoms!!!
because we have been together for 3 years and are getting married in july, I have endometriosis and he is sterile and I'm on seasonique birthcontrol. I figured my chances of getting pregnant are pretty slim but if it did happen it would be a blessing for both of us and as far as stds goes if I end up with one he has some explaining to do lol.
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if you're willing to take chances but his explaining won't help if the std is incurable.
[QUOTE=epicsexy;267181]...as far as stds goes if I end up with one he has some explaining to do lol.[/QUOTE]
Under most circumstances this is not great logic. That will be a tad late, don't you think? I forget what famous person said it but they're right---an ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure.
Having said that, if you're getting married in July ('gratz!), I would hope you have known each other long enough and well enough that you KNOW that you don't need to be worried about each other's past, as opposed to ASSUMING.
T was only my third and with the first two there were always condoms. I was his first. We struggled with and never mastered getting him finished with condoms, but continued using them (or sticking with BJs) until I got Mirena. Only because both the safe history and the protection were in place, did we agree it was okay to lay the condoms by the wayside. And by now we've been married a month and Mirena's still good for another year so we don't bother.
I think Epic's "lol" says that this remark is not to be taken too seriously :rolleyes: There comes a time in a serious relationship where you've thought this over and discussed it together. In a longterm relationship and 3 months before marriage I'd be much surprised if a couple hasn't chosen their way(s) of contraception and done the STD-check-ups. And yes; congratulations! :)
I highly doubt u have used a condom every single time u have had sex EEK, I do understand ur point though. We have known eachother for 9 years, we went to school together and have been good friends this whole time. Thank for all the congrats :)
In this day and age, the point merits being made at every opportunity. The five who have thus far chosen to participate in this thread are not the only ones who currently, or ever will, read it.
Actually YES, I do use condoms every time except with my husband of more than 30 years. Men in the Lifestyle routinely use condoms and do not even ask to go bareback. Those who host parties place bowls of unopened condoms and bottles of lubricant in strategic areas along with trash baskets for disposal.
The one fool who, proving the rule, declined to wear one was perturbed when I simply got up and walked away.
That’s a better idea for safe side to have sex with condoms.
[QUOTE=Brandye;267164] and the sheets have a high sperm count![/QUOTE]
That's just TOO funny !!!