So i have a few things I was kinda curious about
This would be my boyfriends first time, you can so tell he's nervous but being the type of guy he is, he won't admit it. but i know him well-enough to know he DEF. is. I'll admit i'm nervous too, but not as nervous since this would be my second partner. But in making it more enjoyable to him, what would spiceit up alittle. I mean i keep reading things that go WRONG, and i kinda want to prevent that.
Secondly., in my last relationship -- he was big on sex, me? Not so much, but i think it was because it wasn't "asgood" as i dreamt it would be, I rarely oragasmed at all . And i didnt really "get loud" And he always said its because he wasn't "good"enough
Do all females 'get loud" when having sex?
Or.. is it just me?
and lastly, depending on weight who should be on top? I mean im not fat, what so ever. But neither is he. Last boyfriend was built and bigger then me, but my current boyfriend is built yet skinny. He weighs about 130 and i weigh about 110. But i feel HUGE around him so would it be smarter for me to be on the bottom, even tho its his first time?
i might as well say im a virgin, totally clueless...
Even if the guy is really big he should be considerate enough to support his weight so it's not all on you.As far as being loud some girl's are just not as vocal as other's,it's has nothing to do with you.Maybe your just one of the quiter type's.My fiance is really quit,the only way I know when she reaches her climax is she'll start to breathe hard and then she will twitch and jerk when she orgasm's. You will both be a little nervous but don't let that bother you,just enjoy the moment and don't think about it.Do what comes naturally.
The noise level varies with men, too. One of the last guys I was with hardly made a peep. It wasn't until I was with the next guy that I noticed it. It was because the next guy was always verbalizing what felt good or moaning or going "mmm mmm mmm." I loved it!!!
Try not to be self-concious and just let happen what happens--noise and all!