hi, alright... well im Lady... and Alright this weekend i was with my boyfriend who i love...Ty, and well hes only had sex once, well now twice 
but alright, we were sleeping at a friends house, in the spare bed room and were kinda fooling around a bit, i wasnt really doing anything, i wason top of him though, and just moving slightly and pinning him down.. LOL and well... it was about 6 am so we were like PFFT we're tired. and he got up and had to go to the bathroom, and i found it strange, i never noticed before but... i guess he came? in his boxers because he left and changed them... i've never had that before? is that a good or a bad thing?
ALright, the next night, we were kinda fooling around again and it led to sex... and i've never had this before either with a guy, we were having sex and... i wanted to go on top, but we were in missionary for like5 mins... then switched, and then instantly he came. i didnt even get it.. in me or anything and he came.. then... we were kissing and stuff for a while then it was hard again, so.. well yea. and less than 3 mins.... he came again... and im not sure.. but is this normal? i've never had that with a guy... i thought i did something wrong?
thanks for your time.
Lady
How old is your boyfriend? What you describe is pretty typical for a guy in his teens or early twenties, especially if he is new to sex.
[QUOTE=Quote ]and he got up and had to go to the bathroom, and i found it strange, i never noticed before but... i guess he came? in his boxers because he left and changed them... i've never had that before? is that a good or a bad thing?[/QUOTE]
Sounds like he ejaculated prematurely. Not unusual in a young or inexperienced guy, but generally not desirable, since it means less sex for you. He may want to look into techniques on lasting longer. Another possibility is that he didn't ejaculate, but decided to change for a different reason.
[QUOTE=Quote ]ALright, the next night, we were kinda fooling around again and it led to sex... and i've never had this before either with a guy, we were having sex and... i wanted to go on top, but we were in missionary for like5 mins... then switched, and then instantly he came. i didnt even get it.. in me or anything and he came.. then... we were kissing and stuff for a while then it was hard again, so.. well yea. and less than 3 mins.... he came again... and im not sure.. but is this normal? i've never had that with a guy... i thought i did something wrong? [/QUOTE]
Again, he just sounds young and inexperienced. Inexperienced guys generally take less time to ejaculate, and young guys generally take less time to get an erection after ejaculating.
He's 18, just turned it... acctually in July , OH OH no he changed his boxers cause he came in them LOL cause they were.. damp...and stuff... and i could see it... but i didn't say anything cause its not a big deal... he takes... REALLY less time, but can stay hard for a long time, and gets that very easy, but... so i didn't do anything wrong? just.. hes..a newbie? hmm if he changed for a different reason? i wonder what it could be cause it was like 4 in the morning.
Thank you very much
Lady
He's just new to sex. As you have sex more frequently he will be able to last longer and won't cum while "dry humping". You didn't do anything wrong, you made him cum
oh alright.. Hmm Thank you very much for your time and responses! thats what i thought it was.. ;)
Lady
It's perfectly normal to be that fast your first time(s) with sex. I didn't last long at all without a condom. I wouldn't worry about it if I was you.
I sure as hell hope it passes :P but meh, i love him. so we will work on it.. but THANK YOU all VERY much!! i've been looking for a place like this... where everyones "open" about sex.. Wonderful place, thank you again
Lady