I'm worried about my sexual relationship with my boyfriend. We are both in our 20's. I have had 4 partners and he knows this. He is still a virgin because his exgirlfriend wanted to wait till marriage which he was willing to do so for her. She dumped him and he has been single for along time until we met. We are in love and I want to make love to him but I am worried about taking his virginity. He told me that he is ready. I'm wondering should I be? I am also looking for a male perspective about what would be the best way for his 1st time because I want it to be amazing for him. We have lots of oral sex which he has gotten really great at BTW. He is smaller than I'm used to but he really turns me on and I want to cum just thinking about sex with him. Does anyone have advise to easy my mind and make this great for him?
This is an edit which is also posted below.
Sorry UA322 didn't mean anything bad by that, actually I'm excited about that fact simply because bigger has hurt me. My ex was bigger we were sexually active for around 5 years and hurt me almost every time in those 5 years. Bigger is NOT better in my book. I truly believe that he will satisfy as far as size goes and I won't be hurting either All I meant by that is that I'm not used to dealing with that size and might more difficult starting out for us both not just him. I guess next time I should explain more thoroughly. Sorry
Go for it! It will take about half a time for him to learn the basics. The rest comes with ecperience. Guide him towards what you want and do not consider that teaching. Every woman should guide every man. The specifics of our needs vary enough that to have a good lover, we need to what our specific needs are.
don't worry about it, my boyfriend lost his virginity to a girl more experienced then him, but he was totally cool with his first time.
I wouldn't worry about trying to "make it amazing" for him. I'm pretty sure he'll think it's amazing no matter what. Also, take his word for it. If he's says he's ready, he's ready. Go for it.
[QUOTE=blue1980rose]. . .He is smaller than I'm used to . . .[/QUOTE]
And thus, every inexperienced male's nightmare has officially been confirmed in this thread. :D
[QUOTE=blue1980rose]I'm worried about my sexual relationship with my boyfriend. We are both in our 20's. I have had 4 partners and he knows this. He is still a virgin because his exgirlfriend wanted to wait till marriage which he was willing to do so for her. She dumped him and he has been single for along time until we met. We are in love and I want to make love to him but I am worried about taking his virginity. He told me that he is ready. I'm wondering should I be? I am also looking for a male perspective about what would be the best way for his 1st time because I want it to be amazing for him. We have lots of oral sex which he has gotten really great at BTW. He is smaller than I'm used to but he really turns me on and I want to cum just thinking about sex with him. Does anyone have advise to easy my mind and make this great for him?[/QUOTE]
My simple answer: don't worry about it. He'll think it's amazing no matter what.
[QUOTE=ua322]And thus, every inexperienced male's nightmare has officially been confirmed in this thread. :D[/QUOTE]
Sorry UA didn't mean anything bad by that, actually I'm excited about that fact simply because bigger has hurt me. My ex was bigger we were sexually active for around 5 years and hurt me almost every time in those 5 years. I truly believe that he will satisfy as far as size goes and I won't be hurting either :D All I meant by that is that I'm not used to dealing with that size and might more difficult starting out for us both not just him. I guess next time I should explain more thoroughly. Sorry
:eek: :eek: but see....it STILL always comes around to [SIZE="2">S[/SIZE][SIZE="4">I[/SIZE][SIZE="7">Z[/SIZE][SIZE="6">E[/SIZE]...doesn't it !! ROFLMAO:D
[COLOR="Blue">Are you guys just picking on me about the size thing? It's really not about size. I'm happy so please leave it alone. If anyone has any good advise on how to make this wonderful for him please say so otherwise say nothing at all.
Thank You[/COLOR]
My best tip for making it good for him, just make sure to have fun with him. Enjoy the moment, and he'll enjoy it too. Good times. Oh yeah, and if's he's kind of clutzy and not really knowing what to do because it's his first time, guide him a little bit. Be nice about it, and he'll appreciate it greatly. That's about all I got. Enjoy!
[QUOTE=blue1980rose][COLOR="Blue">Are you guys just picking on me about the size thing? It's really not about size. I'm happy so please leave it alone. If anyone has any good advise on how to make this wonderful for him please say so otherwise say nothing at all.
Thank You[/COLOR][/QUOTE]
We're just teasing about the size thing.
As I said, he'll think sex with you is amazing no matter what you do. I really wouldn't worry about it.
Me and my boyfriend have been thinking about having sex but although its not his 1st time, I'll be his 2nd partner EVER so he's needless to say a little worried and I reassure him all the time that it'll be ok and all that and I'm not picky about size or anything its all about comfort and being together. How should i convince him that i really don't mind his lack of experience. Even though i've tried multiple times. (we communicate ALOT)
Thanx
[FONT="Verdana">[/FONT][COLOR="Blue">Hey, people thanks for all your advise we did make love although a little awkward the 1st time which is completely normal it was great. We both enjoyed each other and had fun. That's what truly matters to me. we have a second time and size is defiantly not a factor me makes me happy and I'm completely satisfied. I had a beautiful orgasm :D [/COLOR]
Anna
props for you two!!