Thats fair enough EvilEvilKitten and I am indeed here to learn as I am still young but I was just trying to get across that it doesn't always pay to say things (no matter how they were meant to come across) in such a negative manner, that was all.

I don't doubt you've been there and done it (well most of it anyway :P) and I appreciate your own opinion, it just feels like sometimes u try and make everyone else think they're wrong?

Forgive me if I got the wrong end of the stick.

I always appreciate new advice on what I can do to please my loving girlfriend too so if you feel like you need to spread the word about something (anyone that is) please PM me and I'll try it and let you know what we both thought of it :)

Dr Dave

My wife has always preferrd it inside than out.

Honeslty I do too.

I like it inside my GF, never asked her opinion though but I dont want to wash sheets everyday either ;)

I prefer outside... inside makes you very drippy =\
I dunno what he prefers... I'd rather it be on my stomach or chest.

Yea drippy sux, but some napkins or a shower fixes it fast

From a womans point of view here I have to agree with demonbuttercup

Excuse me but where are your condoms??? Inside the condom while he's inside of you should be the answer unless you are married and planning to have kids.

thanks to the glory of condoms, I come wherever I damn well please! But I do prefer it inside her, the simultaneous orgasm scenario pulls all the right strings in me!

EvilEvilKitten why do you feel it necessary to impose your opinions as fact on these boards? I have noticed it in many posts. My girlfriend and I have been together for 4 years and we don't use condoms because we prefer the feeling without, instead she chooses to take the contraceptive pill instead. We do not plan on having any children yet and we know neither of us has any STIs so where is the problem? Something tells me you have some issues regarding previous sexual experiences, if this is so please try to refrain from using them to scare other people in regards to sex.

Oh and both my girlfriend and I like to mix it up, inside can be just as messy as outside but she likes it on her chest, back and feet too.

I think that EvilKitten is and always trys to be, helpful. And I think you should apologize and not be quite so harsh to folks who want to be helpful.

True enough, fescue but some people don't care to be challenged. They want someone to pat them on their head and reinforce their current ideas. Ah well! One would think that 38 years of playing would give me some knowledge. Isn't that why you are here? To gain knowledge from those who have gone before - been there, done that?

I have to agree with u drdave it feels so much better without the condom I have been with my partner for 7 years so there is no need for a condom

When I cum inside my wife she immediately has a wild orgasm. She loves it as I do. I also cum in her mouth and on her boobs from time to time.

to what evilevilkitten had to say.... i think that most of the time it feels better without the condom.... the first couple of times around is ok but after that there really is no satisfaction for the man(or atleast for me). kinda like having sex with rubber.... if you know what i mean but without the condom is definately testing it. [COLOR="Red">SORRY THIS HAD NOTHING TO DO WITH THE TOPIC.[/COLOR]

Without feels better - of that there's no doubt, but HIV/AIDS, and other STDs/STIs, is nothing to mess around with for just a 'feeling'. Or dont you agree?

What do you mean 'most' of it?

If people are in relationships and are using some other kind of contraception then i see no prob with nt using condoms aslong as have both been tested and trust each other not to stray and are also able to deal with an accidental pregnancy if it occurs.

Back to the topic!

I prefer the feeling of my lover coming inside of me, there is just nothing better than that moment. I think that it is certainly worth doing laundry for really great sex.

Happy Humping!

I like the feeling of him cumming inside of me. With or without a condom, he gets harder and goes faster and deeper when he's about to cum, and it feels wonderful! I don't mind if he wants to cum on another part of my body, but good old inside of me is my favorite, and I think it's his too.

I agree with EvilEvilKitten, we should use condoms unless we're in committed relationships and be sure that no one has STDs. I'm in a long term relationship, so we've been going without a condom for a while (I'm on BC), but even then, we've recently decided to use a condom again just for backup. Condoms are always a good idea.... :)

Yes, that 'second gear' most men have when just about to orgasm is marvelous!

I don't know if I would call it 'second gear' but whatever happens it is definitely one of my favorite wonders of Mother Nature... Hello simultaneous orgasm- here we come!