My girlfriend and i have been sexually active for a couple weeks now. The problem is im 6'7" 237lbs. and she is around 5'6-7" and maybie 120lbs. When i get on top i cush her, and when she is on top im so big (not in penis size but in body) that she can't move. So i was askin if anyone has any ideas on how we can do this.
We are both in great phisical shape i do football and she does softball so don't be worried about if we are capable of doing something.
Well I am 5'3" and dated a man that was 6'6", so there was quite a height difference. Doggie style (my favorite) was hard because his legs were so long and mine were so much shorter. We remedied that by putting my knees on pillows to raise my tushie off the ground.
You on top... you don't have to lay on her and crush her. She can lay flat and you can be on your knees, with your torso straight up. Put her legs over your shoulders or hold her legs close to your chest. You can thrust that way. Also in that position, you can lift her tush off of the bed, or prop pillows under her bottom to your height. You can also put her on the bed and you stand on the floor. That's real easy on the knees, and you don't have to hold anything. Her legs can go around you, she can put her knees to her chest or her legs to your chest or spread em. Many of these positions make it great for you or her to stimulate her clitoris during sex.
Her on top.. She can stand over top of you.. then lower herself down onto your penis. She doesn't have to get completely down on to the bed, but she can use her thigh muscles to lower herself and and bring herself back up. Like doing low squats.
Hope that helps!!!
Well maybie its cuass we are new to this and its still kinda awkward. We both enjoy it but im sure it will get better as we continue.
As my coach alwase says practice makes perfect.
It's hard for me to understand what sort of problem you and your gf are encountering, yet problem there must be. Otherwise, you would not be asking for help.
The size difference you report is about the same as the size difference between me and my first wife. I am 6'3" and she claimed to be 5'0" although I suspect she was shading things a bit when she said she was five feet tall. As far as I know, we enjoyed all the sexual positions with no difficulty.
You're not supposed to crush your gf when you are on top of her. Your weight is to be distributed on your knees and your arms which, presumably, are on either side of your beloved.