hi im new to this site and what made me join is that my boyfriend only ever want me to give him head all the time he's not interested in pleasing me in anyway if i dont give him head then he just goes to sleep. to be honest its starting to hurt my feelings things going through my mind like doesnt he fancy me anymore? am i not good enough for him? when i try and talk to him about it he just says im being silly. he doesnt show me any affection at all am i in a loveless relationship? please someoe help me x
Sun, 08/19/2007 - 23:57
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he's only interested in me pleasing himself
If all he wants from you is a BJ, no stimulation or enjoyment for you? Yeap, that's being selfish. Loveless relationship? If that's all he wants, he is not concerned for your needs, so I say Yeap to that one too. He disregards your feelings when you talk to him? He does not want to hear you. As I say; what you are willing to put up with is exactly what you will get. One of us would be looking for a new place to live, depends on who holds the lease or the mortgage.
As much as one can enjoy giving, its not fair for him not to give. He is missing out!
well ill say if hes not willing to plz u like u want then contact me hehe jk but if u talked to him about and says ure being silly...well i would say hes using u at this moment to just get BJs if he has tha time to ask u 4 a BJ then he should have the time to plz u in the way that u want him to :P and if he truly loves u he would do things to make and see u happy. But id h8 to say that if he doesn't do things to see u happy then im thinkin thats not true love comin from him. thats my opinion on this
You do NOT have a boyfriend - you have a pig.
Dump him!
Be sure to tell him why.
thanks everyone who replied ive spoken to him about it again and this time he actually listened he said he didnt realise how much it bothered me and he said he would change. i talk to him 2 days ago and to my amazment the sex has been great and he's not even asked for a blow job. think why he really listened is because i told him that i would be leavin as i couldnt put up with feeling like im not loved it worked a treat x:D
Good for you.
I am happy to learn that there has been a turn around. Before reading your update, I was going to ask if his attitude and behavior carried over into other aspects of your relationship. Think about this, even with this fair play, now.
Glad to hear; it's amazing how just a conversation with someone causes them to become a "new" person & attentive. :confused: