95% of all vaginas can accept 95% of all penis' (or more). That does not mean they will all be comfortable.

You need to have some serious talks. While you may come to accommodate him with practice, I would not want to picture my future sex life as pain. No suggestions. No exercises. No ANYTHING.

Some parts just do not fit. I have never experienced what you are experiencing but overly rigid penis' make me feel impaled and are reason for not a second date.

So he likes to go deep? Apparently he doesn't know what he's doing because HE'S HURTING YOU! This is supposed to be fun for BOTH of you, not just for him. What do you like? Don't tell us - TELL HIM!

More foreplay, more focus upon you, and more concern for your pleasure - that is what you should be requiring from him.

Guys: going for the posterior fornix BEFORE you know what you're doing is idiotic. Don't do it. You MUST know, without looking, where your penis is in relation to her when you're inside of her before you make the attempt. Be aware that she needs to be post-orgasmic before you make the attempt. This is to ensure her vagina has reached its greatest extent and is therefore ready for you.

Got it?

I was under the impression women were only made so deep like maybe 7-8 inches deep? No?

Yes but there is some expansion upon arousal.

You posted this in the perfect forum - "Pleasing HIM". Now how about consider how it feels for you (it HURTS) and let him consider more what should be "Pleasing YOU".

Let him know it is hurting you, and it is too deep. Try other positions that are comfortable and fun for both of you :)

Different ppl have different problems. My husband had to enlarge his * by Extagen to have average size.

I understand that you have feelings for him. However, your canal obviously cannot handle the size. Do not force yourself, because it is not necessary to be happy. What you need to do is find the man who you can handle. Meaning that when he sticks it all in, then he hits your g-spot, and there is no penis left. There is nothing wrong with you, but from a medical perspective, you all are not compatible.:.:p

Amph it is hoped his penis does NOT end at her G-Spot since her G-Spot lies only a few centimeters inside her vagina! What she NEEDS is a man more skilled at using his penis, not a man with less penis to work with.

[QUOTE=EvilEvilKitten;209084]Amph it is hoped his penis does NOT end at her G-Spot since her G-Spot lies only a few centimeters inside her vagina! What she NEEDS is a man more skilled at using his penis, not a man with less penis to work with.[/QUOTE]

Amen!

My wife and I have the same problem. I am bigger (length) then her body can fully handle under most situations/positions. Flat out - your man just plain sucks at making love!

Let me put it this way. When my wife and I started having sex, I learned very quickly how far I could penetrate her. Her exclamation of the word "OUCH!" was the indication that I needed to have control and take more care of her during sex. I don't get to penetrate her the full length of my penis until she starts to cum and asks me to.

So first and foremost is to either kick this dude to the curb (for being an *******) or tell him he needs to learn how to make love to a woman. The other option is try different positions until you find some that work. My wife and I have a couple of positions where I can penetrate her entirely and it gives her great pleasure. Sex is about pleasing your partner and letting them please you. Nobody should be selfish about it.

Hmm... Reminds me of trying to penetrate my ex. Once you went past about one knuckle's worth of the average finger it was "OUCH!!" Needless to say, penetration failed to occur.

Anyways...

Talk about it, if he doesn't understand it. He's just not a good lover.